This Business Of Art Fix #1: That Awkward Moment You Realize That There Is No Businesswoman’s Lunch Special

Hello! Welcome to the first of what will be many “This Business of Art / Media / Web” fixes, in which I’ll be sharing with you things I read that I loved relating to the work we do here — online media, business, entrepreneurship, women in tech, start-ups, journalism, publishing, management, queer visibility, etc. You can expect this sucker to drop every-other Wednesday.

I think and read and talk about this kind of stuff all the time, especially with my other team members. Now I’m hoping to expand that conversation to involve all of you. I’d also love to hear from other female entrepreneurs and writers about what you’re reading about the work you do!

This Business of Literature

+ I’d decided to share this interview with Emily Gould and Ruth Curry of Emily Books with you before I even got to the part where they talk about Autostraddle as a model for an inspiring and engaged community! Emily Books is a truly fantastic initiative and a significant percentage of the women-authored books they select for your eyeballs are queer as fuck, including one of the books you can get for your very self by pledging $10+ to their kickstarter campaign. The interview basically touches on everything I hold dear: working with your best friend, under-appreciated women writers, this aforementioned business of art. Rachel’s #1 feeling about this interview was, ‘truly this time in media history will be remembered as “the era of women changing the world via g-chat.'”

+ The Enduring Lives of Lit Mags: We’ll Always Have (The) Paris (Review), NPR – “Where other art forms face the constant pressure to reap heaping financial results, literary magazines and journals — although they do need to make money — place more stock in aesthetics and in the exploration of ideas. They are free to focus on the why of things.”

+ The New York Times takes a look inside the rooms of famous writers.

This Business Of Online Media

+ At The Awl, The Concessionist addressed a human with the following problem: I Hate Myself Because I Don’t Work For Buzzfeed. Reading the question gave me so much stress and anxiety. This person is really fucking stressed about all the wrong things, but I also related to tiny bits of it, like “this business (a boy’s club, still) is hard enough for a woman but it’s even harder when you’re not social and not good at networking.” This felt so true for me when I lived in New York, before I gave up and switched coasts. I don’t hate myself because I don’t work for Buzzfeed (Buzzfeed didn’t exist back when I was still looking for work), but I do hate myself because we don’t have Buzzfeed money. They can do whatever they want! They can report whatever they want, wherever they want, using whichever writers and whatever technology they want! THE EDITOR-IN-CHIEFS OF BUZZFEED ARE LIVING MY DREAM LIFE! So after reading the question I felt sweaty and anxious but The Concessionist’s response was like a warm bath, if I was a person who was into baths.

Everything the responder said about the actuality of big media and how they feel about their own work — “I wasn’t publishing anything memorable. I wasn’t making anything good. I wasn’t doing anything at work that a bunch of other people and/or cyborgs possibly couldn’t have done” — reminded me of how lucky I am to work here, where what we do is about so much more than just reporting and traffic, it’s also about human connection, friendship, scissoring and community empowerment.

+ Hey I bet you’ve noticed that the internet affects language and also creates language! Yup, it’s pretty special, this here internet, and the things we say on it. If you wanna think about it some more then you should read The Way That We’re All Writing Now on medium, which I initially clicked ’cause it reminded me of this stupid blog post I wrote in 2006 which also uses the heading “The Way We Talk Now.” The medium piece also lead me to A Linguist Explains the Grammar of Doge. Wow. on The Toast and also to Because Internet, which it seems I’ve been wanting to read my whole life. I remember the first time Rachel used a “because x” in a headline, and I was like, “oh, she must be missing an ‘of'” and the I was like, “or maybe not! That’s sort of cute and clever, this thing Rachel just invented,” and then I was like, “oh, Rachel didn’t invent it.” Finding out that Rachel didn’t invent a thing I love is always hard to swallow.

+ My Year Ripping Off The Web With The Daily Mail Online: “In a little more than a year of working in the Mail’s New York newsroom, I saw basic journalism standards and ethics casually and routinely ignored. I saw other publications’ work lifted wholesale. I watched editors at the most highly trafficked English-language online newspaper in the world publish information they knew to be inaccurate.”

Businesswoman’s Special: Advice On How To Work Better

How Successful People Stay Productive and In Control, Forbes – I made all the Senior Editors read this one. This article legitimately provided me with really useful advice, especially about the importance of forgiving yourself and moving on when you fuck up. I fuck up a lot. SUPRISE.

Six Ways To Make Your Phone Calls More Efficient, Inc.“Phone calls are one of the most inefficient ways to communicate in today’s business environment. Regrettably they are commonly used, especially as workforces become more dispersed and remote.”

This Business of Community

+ So, I’m working on this post about things that have changed in online media since we got started here six years ago, including the rise of online callout culture, WHICH I HATE. On that tip, I found Asam Ahmad’s A Note on Call-Out Culture to be just wonderful.

+ Early in Negativity Online: An Essay Inspired by 200,000 Comments, Grace Bonney of Design*Sponge mentions a thing many online writers have been hearing lately — that comments are dead and it’d better to just shut it down or refuse to engage than it is to keep trying so hard. Much like us, Grace Bonney has no interest in shutting it down. Instead, she has real ideas about how to make online commenting better: “no matter what inalienable rights we have to scream at each other on the Internet, it doesn’t release us from the obligation we have to deal with the repercussions of our negativity. I believe there are better ways to define what our problems really are and better ways to speak to each other and work toward creating a more accepting and understanding community.”

This Business Of Business

The New Yorker’s Revamped Paywall Is Driving New Readers & Subscribers, Nieman Lab – “The overall goal, through the redesign and the meter, is accessibility, both in technology and tone. As the rush on the archive proved, there is already a firm, and vocal, audience for The New Yorker. Ray said they need to keep expanding, which means reaching people who either don’t know The New Yorker or have misconceptions about magazine.”

Inside Buzzfeed’s Plans To Prove Its Native Ads Work, Digiday

+ An interview with David Carey, the male president of Hearst Magazines, “one of the biggest women’s monthly publishers,” Digiday

+ How Etsy Alienated Its Crafters and Lost Its Soul, Wired Magazine

+ How The New York Times Works, Popular Mechanics

+ Can Entrepreneurs Save The Motor City?, The Economist

+ Two Start-Up Founders Talk Diversity in Tech, Huffington Post via Colorlines

Articles I Wish Somebody Would Pitch To Autostraddle This Month

If you are that somebody, you can pitch here. (If you already work here, just hit up the #pitch channel in Slack or e-mail Laneia, obvs)

+ Top Ten Cities for LGBTQ Women in [Australia] [Europe] [Africa] [Southeast Aaia] [etc]. We’ve done lists about The Most Lesbianish Cities in the U.S. but we very much need the equivalent written about places besides this country, ideally by natives rather than visitors. I don’t know if this would be best done by continent or by country? I don’t know anything. I hope you do.

+ Will Any Of These Skin Products Actually Fix Ten Years Of Disregard For My Physical Health / 10 Ways Of Looking at Undereye Cream

+ We remain eternally in the market for on-the-ground reporting from #blacklivesmatter activism

+ Photoessays about farming

+ Why do health insurance companies cover fertility treatments for heterosexual married women who’ve tried to get pregnant with their husbands but couldn’t even though they don’t cover fertility treatments for homosexual married women who can’t get pregnant with their cis wives? I mean, I know why, but I feel like some advocacy around this issue could help change things.

+ Top Ten Best Places In [various regions of the U.S.] for a queer female couple to start a family

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Riese is the 41-year-old Co-Founder of as well as an award-winning writer, video-maker, LGBTQ+ Marketing consultant and aspiring cyber-performance artist who grew up in Michigan, lost her mind in New York and now lives in Los Angeles. Her work has appeared in nine books, magazines including Marie Claire and Curve, and all over the web including Nylon, Queerty, Nerve, Bitch, Emily Books and Jezebel. She had a very popular personal blog once upon a time, and then she recapped The L Word, and then she had the idea to make this place, and now here we all are! In 2016, she was nominated for a GLAAD Award for Outstanding Digital Journalism. She's Jewish and has a cute dog named Carol. Follow her on twitter and instagram.

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  1. man, this daily fix suff is so great! It’s like TIRTIL every day of the week.

    I really liked the piece about etsy. I’ve been thinking of jumping ship to big cartel and this might have finally pushed me over the edge.

  2. Wow wow wow I Hate Myself Because I Don’t Work for Buzzfeed stirred up and soothed so much of my current 25yearoldlifeangst.

  3. THIS IS THE BEST. Never stop publishing this fix, please.

    Also, I’ve found that some doctors and insurance companies will cover infertility treatment for queer folks. I was surprised to find some doctors and insurance companies will work with you to get the treatment covered. It’s still ridiculous that it is often not covered. And expensive.

  4. Thank you so so so much for all these links! I’m genuinely interested in reading up on what’s going on in the world outside of pop culture and sensational news, so this helps quite a bit!

  5. So many tabs open on my browser :). Although I would read anything in a column whose title casually references T&S circa 2000.

  6. I’ll write about skincare products for you riese because I care about you and your undereye circles

    • I have been using L’Oreal Revitalift for about 3 weeks and noticed some difference w/r/t expression lines but not around the eyes.

  7. I don’t know about Undereye Cream but I have recently started using nightly face cream and I have been noticing the difference. But it’s sad to have wrinkles and acne at the same time. *sigh*
    Adulting is hard.

    • my adventures in night cream so far have led to my skin feeling really tingly and also more acne, but mostly me standing in CVS staring at things for a while feeling the life drain out of my fingertips

  8. Hello Riese, I love the heck out of this new seg. I also love the heck out of phone calls for business purposes. Several years ago I never thought I’d be a person who would be like, “yes! let’s do this shit via phone!” but these days nothing makes me want to poke my eyeballs out more than the suggestion of trying to achieve something business-y via text/email. So that article with phone meeting tips was solid, thanks for sharing it.

  9. riese as you know i am all for farming photoessays and autostraddle becoming the new modern farmer. i would submit but i don’t think anyone wants to read ‘how to kill your potted balcony herbs and breed mosquitoes 8 floors up’.

    also i love emily books, nice shoutout!

  10. Oh, hello! wow, I haven’t been on autostraddle since I used to read your guys’s gleecaps

    Perhaps it’s worth mentioning that I have eleven pages of posts about internet language under this tag?

    I mean. no pressure. just. did you really want to do something productive today?

    (And now to read all these other tabs I seem to have opened.)

  11. when you say “photoessays about farming” what angle are y’all interested in exactly? is the angle photoessays on farming and this is a dumb question?

  12. have i mentioned that i am very excited that this column exists? because i am very excited that this column exists.


    I’m not even sure there is one city in South-East Asia that’s ideal for LGBTQ people, let alone ten. I suppose it depends on your definition of “ideal”? I’ve met way too many people who consider the fact that there are any anti-gay laws at all as NEVER VISIT THIS COUNTRY EVER.

  14. All of these articles look both nutritious AND delicious. I am very excited to read them.

    I could do a photoessay about my namesake lesbian cow on a dairy farm in Nova Scotia.

  15. Top ten lgbtq cities/places in Europe? I guess Brighton, Barcelona, Sitges, Lesbos, Amsterdam, Manchester, London, Berlin, Madrid and gay Paris. I think you would have to list by continent ’cause a lot of countries in Europe don’t have 10 cities, let alone 10 gay friendly ones.

    • Make it a series, 10 cities in Europe, then 10 unexpectedly lesbianish cities to show some beyond the obvious, then top 5 for countries that have enough…

      Okay, basically I just want an endless list of places to fantasize about running away to when work/research is just too much.

  16. This column is so great that it’s inspired me to finally stop lurking after, like, three years here, and actually comment. This column is so great, the new posting schedule is so great, never stop being awesome, Autostraddle!

  17. Excited about this series!! I’m a freelance web developer/designer/marketer, and love meeting other magic unicorns who do what I do. Any other freelancers out there? There’s a great group I’m in called “Lesbians Who Tech” — check ’em out!

  18. Wow, I want to click on and read more of the links in this listicle than I have on one of these in a long time.

  19. I have been traveling an wwoofing in australia and new zealand. So my friend (who i met through A-Camp) and i could probably collectively make a photoessay, but it would be more about wwoofing than real farming.
    And that person who is studying sustainable agriculture is probably more qualified anyway.

    But, riese, i wasn’t sure if i would be able to relate to this article when you announced it, but now i want to read literally every link you posted here. So, awesome. Thanks for once again knowing what i want before i do!

    • you’re welcome! i always aim to be ahead of the curve on ‘things you don’t know you want but that you for sure actually want’

  20. This is AMAZING. This is all the things I want to ready about (new media and linguistics and the internet and human nature) in one place. Love it!

  21. Linguistics links! I was worried about getting lost in a rabbit hole for a second there but I have read most of them already, so I’ll be ok.

    Re: Skin Products To Actually Fix Ten Years Of Disregard For My Physical Health, I don’t know what is best for undereye circles other than more sleep, but for other things:
    Acne: willow bark extract!!!!
    Wrinkles and sun damage: grapeseed oil
    Scars: Webber Vitamin E Ointment
    I have been fighting with my skin (and my anxiety disorder that causes me to fuck with my skin) for 25 years and have tried Literally Every Thing, so I have some expertise in this area.

  22. I am excited about reading about Lesbianish places all over the world. I would love to see it done by country so we get more places to read about. Or compiled through submissions from readers who suggest a place, to get more variety. I could tell you why I think Nantes is wonderfully Lesbianish, but if someone were to just go off of research done online or personal experience, it’d likely get overlooked.

    I’m very excited about this column and also the prospect of Rachel telling me how to not have racoon eyes.

    • Nantes is lesbianish? Really? I may be going there to study next September! That’s so cool ^^
      Seville in southern Spain is fairly gay friendly in general too, and there are lots of university students

      • It really is! There’s a great “hetero friendly” bar in the center with a good atmosphere and a mix of patrons, a bar that is a lesbian club on the weekends, several queer collectives that organize parties and events, an lgbt badminton/volleyball/cycling club, a café/bookshop with plenty of feminist lit, a queer bicycle repair association thingy… Pride here is a huge street party.

        I found it REALLY easy to meet people and get involved here. Plus the city is amazing- always something going on, so many parks and beautiful running/cycling trails along the rivrs, quality transport and very cyclable.

        Check out this adorable it ges better vid a local activist group made a few years back.

        The weather sometimes leaves a lot to be desired. This winter was beautiful, but usually it can be very rainy. But that’s the price we pay for having the coast so close.

        Hope you get to study here, you won’t regret it!

  23. I have so many feelings about this new fix! Thank thank you thank you Riese. As a new entrepreneur, I’m feeling pretty starved for connections with other queer business folk. *hearts & puppies

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