“The Four 2012” Marriage Equality Ads: All The Feelings

Ali’s Team Pick:


via The Four 2012

This November, four states have ballot questions about marriage equality — Maine, Maryland, Minnesota and Washington — and we want to win all of them. That’s why New Left Media and The Four have teamed up to make a stunning four-part series of marriage equality ads, the first of which is from Maine. And guys! They have real gay people in the ad! (And yes, there is one straight “ambassador.”) The production values are marvelous and this ad gives me All The Feelings. I can’t wait to see the next one which is set to be released Tuesday, October 9th on the Four 2012’s website.

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A.E. Osworth

A.E. Osworth is part-time Faculty at The New School, where they teach undergraduates the art of digital storytelling. Their novel, We Are Watching Eliza Bright, about a game developer dealing with harassment (and narrated collectively by a fictional subreddit), is forthcoming from Grand Central Publishing (April 2021) and is available for pre-order now. They have an eight-year freelancing career and you can find their work on Autostraddle (where they used to be the Geekery Editor), Guernica, Quartz, Electric Lit, Paper Darts, Mashable, and drDoctor, among others.

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  1. I really love to see long term gay relationships. I don’t buy into that whole “lesbian relationships are usually short and that’s normal for us”-crap, it’s just so immature.

    • It’s actually not only immature, it’s untrue. Relationships between women are longer than straight relationships, research has shown (relationships between men tend to be somewhat shorter).

      Biological imperatives and stuff. It makes a lot of sense.

    • I think with the Maine lesbian couple, it’s because relationships that long are rare for ANYONE, really. I mean, they’re in their early 30s so they’ve been together since their early 20s. Who stays with their gf at age 20 forever? That’s quite an accomplishment.

  2. I studied in TN for a year at uni and I was there when Obama was voted in. It was amazing to be there for such a historical moment, but bittersweet as Prop 8 passed just a few days later.

    Even though I wasn’t an American citizen, as a gay woman who loves her American family and wants to live there some day, it certainly brought tears to my eyes that a state, seemingly as liberal as California, could vote to take away the right for everybody to marry the person they love.

    I wish I lived in America so I could vote YES! to equal marriage.

    [Lisa – UK]

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