In my day-to-day life my brattiness shows up as snark and a tendency to play devil’s advocate. It wasn’t until I entered the BDSM scene five years ago that I learned to express it in new and unexpected ways.
Don’t think of not having had sex as a disadvantage — think of it like a secret weapon.
Knowing better and doing better is a U-turn opening, and then there’s us smiling in our car, driving directly and proudly into the median.
Here’s how a 23 year old polyam queer femme living in Long Beach, CA, in a long-term relationship does poly.
Is that insecurity in my pocket or have you just not sexted me back yet?
How a single 31-year old pansexual non-monogamous Black woman living in Los Angeles is starting to explore poly.
“I have a relationship to myself first. If that relationship isn’t solid and healthy I’m not good with anyone.”
I get it now. Hot toppy girls will like me just as I am or they won’t get to like me at all. I am good enough.
“One way we can change the narratives around our sexuality and our erotic bodies is by taking up space as sexual beings and celebrating other women and femmes doing the same.” This zine is on it.
How a 23-year-old bisexual polyamorous nonbinary femme xicanx in two very loving relationships does poly.
“It was everything I had been looking for, only better, because it came along with smooching and cuddling and spanking.”
Here’s how a 23-year-old mixed race Asian genderqueer polyamorous bisexual femme who just moved to Brooklyn does poly.
“When I’m being used for sex, I feel like a vessel through which pleasure flows, hot and bursting.”
Somehow, self-identifying as a submissive makes some potential doms think I am their sub.
People often describe fate by saying “the stars aligned,” and that’s true. Our planets collaborated through the alchemy of our bodies that night. Our bodies aligned, the stars aligned.
Chocolate might give a temporary sugar rush, but this DIY weed lube will keep your vagina high all night long.
“Boats have also been incredibly healing for me and have really helped me create better relationships in all parts of my life. They make me work harder to maintain my friendships, be better at communication, and generally just better at existing around all different kinds of people.”
“He’d asked me about it before, saying it was something he’d always wanted. And now, he was quivering on the floor, looking up at me, handing me an open knife with both hands.”
14 opening lines that will have you burning up Tinder (with queer pop culture references!).
How a a 28-year-old Chicana pansexual cis woman living in the Midwest, working in the sex industry, and in a long-term queer platonic relationship does poly.