From houseplants to spice girls to Generation Q, these were the 20 most popular posts of 2019.

Also, Aisha Hinds is going to break your heart on 911. Plus updates on HTGAWM, Legacies, S.W.A.T., and the finale of American Horror Story: 1984.

Kristen Stewart’s planning to propose, Amber Heard is a great Tank Girl, Asia Kate Dillon does double denim, Janelle Monae wins the costume contest, Ali Krieger looks great in leggings and so much more in this week’s No Filter!

Is it not a gay badge of honor to be tired and sad and drained and to still exist?

Here’s some of your local bi+ Autostraddle writers and pals weighing in on what we hope to see in a bisexual future. Where do you see us headed? Let us know in the comments!

Also, the cast of Are You The One? are still perfect and Mara Wilson finally caved and got Instagram!

48. identifying what episode of The Nanny it is based on C.C. Babcock’s hair

Gays really do love their hats.

A whole new Charlie’s Angels to make a whole new generation gay! Happy Pride!

Kate Moennig and Leisha Hailey take pics at Pride, Evan Rachel Wood got a bisexual towel, Tessa Thompson wore alluring outfits in Marie Claire Magazine and other pressing news from celebrity instagram!

Over the past four years, I fell in love, traveled many places, had my heart broken, unraveled. I also ate a lot of seafood platters. Here are some of them.

Most people didn’t understand the theme, but last night’s Met Gala was as glamorous and queer as ever! Maybe, even more than usual this year!! Here are some of my favorite looks, paired with literal notes on camp.

Almost 100 amazing humans sent pictures for our #TransDayOfVisibility Community Gallery! Get in here and celebrate our lives!

Jess’ Blackness is tended to, built back up as the positive it is. I don’t think we have ever seen anything like this — but I certainly hope we see it again.

Milwaukee based REYNA (Victoriah and Hannah Gabriela Banuelos) has some perfectly crafted queer pop you’ll love, and they’re gearing up for their biggest year yet.

In which Hayley Kiyoko fully geeks out over meeting her idol, Kristen Stewart sat next to Janelle Monaé once (WHAT DOES IT MEAN?!?!), Teddy Geiger is still thirsty and Kehlani is still pregnant.

Brandi Carlile hates guns, Bollywood has a new lesbian rom-com, butterflies coming out of cocoons, KaeLyn talks babies & bills, and belated IWD greetings. Happy Sunday!!

“i do love that you are holding barefoot wine in that nervous breakdown picture”

I’m ready to kiss the last hours of the longest 28 days on record away with a f*cking party and a playlist full of bangers!

Grace Choi finally gets the backstory we’ve been waiting on for TWO YEARS. Trust me, you’re going to want a box of tissues for this one.