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AF+

How Can I Convince My Girlfriend To Accept Her Shot at Financial Freedom?

Your parents can help your girlfriend achieve some financial freedom, but she super doesn’t see it that way. Plus, a reader wonders if cis people can use “they/them”?

the team November 8, 2024 5 Comments
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Society + Culture

I Watched 47 Hear Me Out Cake Videos and This Is What I Learned About Straight People

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Here’s How We Can Help Each Other in Trump’s America (and Beyond)

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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Sports

BREAKING: Extremely Hot and Talented WNBA Star Courtney Williams Is Engaged!

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Only Palestine Can Save America From Fascism

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Movie Features

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Drew Burnett Gregory November 7, 2024 4 Comments
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Parenting & Family

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My wife, novelist Kristen Arnett, hasn’t had any real contact with her parents for about eight years.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 7, 2024 9 Comments
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Politics + Activism

Despite Majority Support, Abortion Rights Failed in Florida Due to a Stupid Rule — That’s Bad for Everyone

Due to a 2006 rule that requires a 60% approval rating for constitutional amendments in Florida, the abortion rights amendment did not pass despite majority support. This outcome is bad for Florida but also for everyone and points toward a trend of the ruling class making it harder and harder to enact change.

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Movie Reviews

‘Time Cut’ Is a Silly Slasher with a Sapphic Subplot

The queer reveal is presented as a twist, and while I’m sure it surprised straight viewers, sleuthy queers will probably pick up on it.

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Movie Reviews

Annie Baker’s ‘Janet Planet’ Captures the Beautiful Hell of Queer Childhood

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Politics + Activism

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Movie Features Pets & Animals

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Pop Culture Fix

‘Agatha All Along’ Considered a Cottagecore Lesbian Backstory for Agatha and Rio

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LGBT History

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Friendship

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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Queer-Coded Book Is Your Gay Root?

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Music

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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

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