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That Ugly Ass Tax Bill Disproportionately Impacts the Trans Community

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Mini Crossword Is Joyful and Defiant

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A Queer History of the Muppets

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TV Lists

The History of LGBTQ+ Reality TV Dating Shows From ‘NeXT’ to ‘The Ultimatum: Queer Love’

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TV Show Recaps

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The Best Lesbian Movie Make Outs of All Time

Happy International Kissing Day! Celebrate by revisiting the best lesbian movie make outs of all time!

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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Lesbian Ice Cream Truck Treat Are You?

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Book Features

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TV Show Recaps

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