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Into the A+ Advice Inbox #96: So You Hate College

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Movie Reviews

“Mean Girls” (2024) Made Us Feel Too Gay To Function

With the power vocals of Auli’i Cravalho and Reneé Rapp and a canonically queer Janis, Mean Girls is back and gayer than ever.

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Mini Crossword Was a Freshperson Once

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Maybe All Real Housewives Are Bisexual

Kyle Richards says she’s open to dating a woman.

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In a Variety Magazine cover story, Kristen Stewart is telling us everything: why she came out on Saturday Night Live, gay sex scenes in Love Lies Bleeding, a new take on Panic Room, the queer subtext in Twilight and so much more!

Riese January 11, 2024 5 Comments
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Health

Healing After Top Surgery: Expectation vs. Reality

What’s it like to walk down the stairs with nothing bouncing? What’s it like to feel a seatbelt flat against me? What’s it like when my girlfriend lays her head on my chest, REALLY on my chest, closer to my heart than ever?

Max Gross January 11, 2024 12 Comments
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Book Lists

Consider This: Listening to an Audiobook While Doing a Jigsaw Puzzle

I have unlocked a new level of intellectual heaven: listening to an audiobook while doing a jigsaw puzzle.

Riese January 11, 2024 6 Comments
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First Person

Untethered: A Great Lady

I’ve been eulogizing, just to myself, in the moments between other moments that are claimed by tasks or thoughts of the present or literally anything else.

Nico January 11, 2024 9 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Here’s A Gay Rundown of the SAG Nominees

Also a new Valkyrie deleted scene from The Marvels dropped today, Wynonna Earp writers are working on a new show starring Toni Topaz from Riverdale, and Lily Gladstone’s former high school classmates always knew that they’d win an Oscar.

Valerie Anne January 10, 2024 4 Comments
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Society + Culture

A New Author-Owned Bookstore Centering Banned Books Is Coming to Central Florida

One bookstore isn’t going to change everything, but it’s a significant reminder there are people fighting for this place and especially for its arts and culture spaces.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 10, 2024
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Keke Palmer Stays Making History

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Christina Tucker January 10, 2024 1 Comment
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TV Feature

Max Abandons Ship and Cancels “Our Flag Means Death,” Wrecks Passionate Queer Fandom

I don’t know about y’all, but I’m so tired of watching our shows get canceled even when they’re wildly successful.

Nic January 10, 2024 11 Comments
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Relationships

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Puzzles

Mini Crossword is Really Into Etymology

I want a job cleaning mirrors.

Emet Ozar January 10, 2024 2 Comments
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Food and Drink

So You Bought a Pomegranate

Make your own grenadine with fresh pomegranate juice!

ashni January 9, 2024 1 Comment
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LGBT Book Reviews

“Alice Sadie Celine” Is a Delectable Queer Sex Novel With a Wicked Sense of Humor

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TV Feature

Elise Bauman on Being Queer and Competitive in New Canadian Sitcom “One More Time”

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Drew Burnett Gregory January 9, 2024 14 Comments
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Gender

You Need Help: As a Transmasc, Am I Welcome in Lesbian Spaces?

You see, for me and you, dating women wasn’t the only thing that made us lesbians or gay. It’s an entire culture with a rich history of tradition, identity, protest, community, and so much more.

Motti January 9, 2024 12 Comments
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Movie Reviews

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