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LGBT History

24 Very Gay Excerpts from Eleanor Roosevelt’s Love Letters with Lorena Hickok

“Most clearly I remember your eyes with a kind of teasing smile in them, and the feeling of that soft spot just northeast of the corner of your mouth against my lips.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya 4 hours ago 38 Comments
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LGBT History

How Magazines Served As Sites of Trans Community-Making 50 Years Ago

These magazines provided critical representation for trans and gender expansive individuals across the United States who saw themselves represented in their pages.

Emma Cieslik August 8, 2025 1 Comment
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AF+ Relationships

Can’t a Lesbian Enjoy a Little Straight Porn Around Here?

Your best friend is shaming you for the kind of porn that gets you off. Also; tips on having more threesomes.

the team August 8, 2025
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AF+ Sex

The Married New Englanders Debating an Erotic Tattoo Gun Situation

“We used a lot of different toys in the beginning, and I think that was because I personally had a lot of toys that I wanted to share with you to be like, ‘Is this cool?’

Sex/Life August 7, 2025
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Book Features First Person

What Is Queer Generational Trauma, and How Do We Tell Stories About It?

Lately, I’ve been obsessing over the concept of queer generational trauma: the pain passed down to us from our ancestors, which we bequeath in turn to those who come after us.

Charlie Jane Anders August 7, 2025 3 Comments
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First Person

I Hope the Crows Will Miss Me

After three years spent cultivating this yard with care, I’m about to leave it to whoever comes next.

Kristen Arnett August 6, 2025 7 Comments
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What Kind of Date To Wear Each WNBA Jersey To

Nothing’s hotter than an outfit that says “I love women’s sports.” 

Kayley Cassidy August 6, 2025 2 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: It’s Jinkx Monsoon Summer

Plus, Hayley Kiyoko and Becca Tilley are simply LOVING being engaged.

Christina Tucker August 6, 2025
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Health

‘I Feel Incredibly Bad and Guilty After Masturbating’

Feeling bad about masturbation is a remarkably normal thing, especially for people who were immersed (drowned) in shame from the beginning.

Summer Tao August 5, 2025 1 Comment
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Book Lists

Our Most Anticipated Queer Books for August 2025

There’s a lot of new hot queer horror headed your way this August. Plus, more LGBTQ+ lit across all genres!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Riese
August 5, 2025 2 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Help I Can’t Stop Watching Clips of Cynthia Erivo as Black Lesbian Jesus

Cynthia Erivo was Jesus and Phillipa Soo sang her love songs at the Hollywood Bowl this weekend! Plus, more buried and unburied gays on TV, Doechii announces upcoming tour, Jinkx Monsoon is pansexual, and more!

Valerie Anne August 4, 2025 7 Comments
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Book Features LGBT History

78 Years Of Lesbian Magazines Keeping Our Queer Legacy Alive

The desire to connect with other people like us has been the driving force of queer media since the first lesbian print magazine ever launched in 1947. Here are just 50 of the many publications that built the community we hold so dear.

Riese August 4, 2025 6 Comments
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AF+ Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

How To Choose Between Two Paths Using the Tarot

We’ve all been faced with the challenge of deciding between two paths. Here’s a practice that can help.

Autumn Fourkiller August 4, 2025
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Politics + Activism

Hospitals in Supposedly ‘Blue’ States Are Cutting Gender-Affirming Care for Trans Youth

Let’s not forget that witnessing resistance is important fuel in our continued efforts to ensure all trans people get the resources they need and deserve.

Stef Rubino August 4, 2025
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Character From ‘The Hunting Wives’ Are You?

And listen, you’re not going to like who you get, okay?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 3, 2025 13 Comments
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AF+ Relationships

How Do I Talk To My Family About Harry Potter?

How do you talk to your family about JK Rowling’s transphobia? And what to do about your poly kinky friend who seems bored by your monogamous life?

the team August 1, 2025 2 Comments
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Music

Chappell Roan’s Breakup Ballad ‘The Subway’ Is Perfect for Late-Summer Yearning

Which ex would YOU least like to run into on public transportation? Chappell Roan’s music video for ‘The Subway’ will have you contemplating.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 1, 2025 12 Comments
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Movie Lists TV Lists

August 2025: What’s New, Gay and Streaming on Netflix, Prime Video, HBO Max and Apple TV

Well, what we do have is a Diana Taurasi docuseries, new seasons of Invasion and Upload, a new animated series with Abbi Jacobson and Nicole Byer being gay, and more!

Riese August 1, 2025 6 Comments
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Music

The Most Chaotic Lyrics From Every Track on Reneé Rapp’s New Extremely Gay Album ‘Bite Me’

“I think wе almost made a baby / I mean, we can’t, but we came so close”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 1, 2025 3 Comments
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At the 50th Invasion of the Pines, Drag Reminds Us of the Power of Self-Expression

For 50 years, Invasion of the Pines has brought a celebration of drag and resistance to Fire Island Pines.

Elyssa Maxx Goodman July 31, 2025 2 Comments
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