Olivia Wilde Is Bisexual in 2012’s Hilariously Smart “Butter,” You Deserve This

Perhaps you already heard this one, but Autostraddle celebrated our 10th birthday last month. As a part of the festivities, we created The Autostraddle Yearbook – a digital archive of not only our own work, but also the last ten years of queer women’s pop culture. That’s how this debate originally started. You see, our Editor-in-Chief, Riese Bernard, was 100% positive that the 2012 political satire Butter was in fact, gay.

None of the rest of us even remembered the movie existed! I decided to investigate.

Butter was a blink-and-you-missed-it indie comedy starring Jennifer Garner, Ty Burell, Olivia Wilde (say her name three times and a queer woman who experienced her coming of age in the 2000s will appear before you in low cut jeans and heavy black eyeliner. I don’t make the rules), and – this is what really floored me – Yara Shahidi, black America’s celebrity girl next door of Black-ish  and Grown-ish fame, when she was still just a little pint sized Yara. Oh my goodness. So cute! So little!

The film takes place in rural Iowa during State Fair season. Jennifer Garner is a local politician with big ambitions and her husband, Ty Burell, is a master butter sculptor who has won the state competition for the last 15 years! Yara Shahidi is Destiny, who’s spent most of her young life in and out of foster care, but is somehow still a natural for the for the art form. The art form of butter sculpture. Hard core, Sistine Chapel worthy, butter sculpture.

Yes, I am serious.

Y’all, I thought I was Midwestern. I grew up in Michigan and went to college in Minnesota. I’ve been to all the State Fairs. I’ve eaten everything that’s ever come on a stick. This is a whole next level of Midwestern that I didn’t even know about! And thank goodness it exists. Because that means this movie exists. And you really, really want to see this movie.

Olivia Wilde is Brooke, a bisexual sex worker who starts the movie with Ty Burell as her client. She ends the film with a female client that I won’t spoil because it came as a total surprise to me and I don’t want to ruin it for you! Basically, the name of Brooke’s game is righteous disruption. She’s ready to tear down the picture perfect hypocrisy in this small town. Jennifer Garner’s dead on Sarah Palin/ Michelle Bachmann rip-off goes around in pretty three piece pink suits that mask her ruthless true intentions while saying things like, “Don’t worry, I am not a feminist.” Olivia Wilde saunters into the competition in a mid-drift tank top with no bra and saying shit like this:

So really, what else do you need on a Saturday night?

Brooke ultimately becomes a bit of a fairy godmother to teeny-tiny Yara. When their subtle, but heartfelt team up finally happens, all bets are off.

The entire plot for Butter is the kind of wackadoodle delight that one should really experience with fresh eyes and their feet up on a couch with a bowl of junk food at their disposal. The narration delivered by Yara is some of the smartest, double-take worthy, “I can’t believe she really went there”, black girl monologuing that I’ve heard in a long time. All of the hot take political comedy (that I think was originally designed to push up against the waining years of George W Bush era America) only triples in sharpness when placed against a Trump backdrop. That alone is worth your time.

BUT before I get out of here, let’s talk about this cast: In addition to Jennifer Garner, Ty Burell (what’s up Modern Family! And I mean that shout out to the early years, when it was still funny), Yara Freakin’ Shahidi, and the patron goddess of so many of our dreams Olivia Wilde, you are also going to find The Wolverine Himself Hugh Jackman, Kristen Schaal (you probably know her as the voice of Louise Belcher in Bob’s Burgers) AND THE ONE AND ONLY CHER HOROWITZ AKA ALICIA SILVERSTONE!! It’s as if someone decided to play a game of mad libs with the top comedic talent of the last 25 years and this cast popped out!

The movie only has a 34% score from Rotten Tomatoes, and for the life of me I cannot imagine why? Probably because most Rotten Tomato critics are straight white men, and straight white conservatism is thoroughly lampooned in this film from beginning to end. When you’re not in on the joke, you’re just not in on the joke. Thankfully that’s not going to be a problem you’ll have. Don’t take my word for it, watch the trailer.

You can watch Butter on Netflix at any time. It’s worth it and you deserve nice things.

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Carmen Phillips

Carmen Phillips is Autostraddle's former editor in chief. She began at Autostraddle in 2017 as a freelance team writer and worked her way up through the company, eventually becoming the EIC from 2021-2024. A Black Puerto Rican feminist writer with a PhD in American Studies from New York University, Carmen specializes in writing about Blackness, race, queerness, politics, culture, and the many ways we find community and connection with each other.  During her time at Autostraddle, Carmen focused on pop culture, TV and film reviews, criticism, interviews, and news analysis. She claims many past homes, but left the largest parts of her heart in Detroit, Brooklyn, and Buffalo, NY. And there were several years in her early 20s when she earnestly slept with a copy of James Baldwin’s “Fire Next Time” under her pillow. To reach out, you can find Carmen on Twitter, Instagram, or her website.

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  1. I went through a stage where I was completely obsessed with Olivia Wilde “for some reason” around 2010-11. I’ve seen 13-centric episodes of House a truly shameful number of times. Info about this movie was definitely floating around at the time – I think it did a festival circuit? I was completely obsessed with seeing it, definitely posted a lootttt about it on tumblr. I think I ended up streaming it via questionable means because I remember seeing a low-quality version. I was usually very legally responsible and was terrified of getting a virus, but I just HAD TO SEE THIS MOVIE.

    Definitely one of my top 5 most absurd “how did I not know?!?” moments and I totally forgot it happened until I saw this post. I know what I’m doing tonight…

  2. The butter sculptures are one of my favorite parts of the Ohio State Fair, and Olivia Wilde was one of my favorite parts of House, so I think this movie and I are meant to be!

  3. After reading this, I decided to check the film out. According to Netflix, I had already watched 3/4 of the movie. I don’t remember a second of that movie.

  4. My mom & sister watched this the other night, and my sister was compelled to call and tell me about how bizarre/hilarious it was.

    All the butter sculpting at the Minnesota State Fair is busts of Princess Kay of the Milky Way contestants. A butter sculpture contest would be a whole other level.

  5. I love this movie! One of the best random late night Netflix decisions I’ve ever made. I think it’s about 70% because I wouldn’t mind Olivia Wilde’s character or real life Olivia Wilde completely destroying my life, but also, it’s just a really enjoyable movie!

  6. Everyone should watch this movie. It’s ridiculous and amazing with very Drop Dead Gorgeous vibes and it’s always a treat to watch Olivia Wilde kiss girls on my tv.

  7. I watched this years ago (mid Obama administration?) with some v midwestern friends who grew up in conservative Christian homes and despite v much rejecting those ideologies did not appreciate the lampooning of that sector of America. I sure did. They were also too young to vote in the Bush elections.
    ANYWAY. It was before I knew I was bi and I somehow have no memory of Olivia Wilde being bi??? Due for a rewatch.

  8. It had its moments, but I live too close to the actual butter cow to enjoy it fully. I loved the real shots of the Iowa State Fair, but there is no such thing as a county contest to get to state. That and the butter cow and other butter items are kept in freezers. Johnson county is 2 hours from Des Moines and with a major university (U of Iowa) they have a very dense and diverse population (for Iowa).

  9. I was a new baby gay when this came out and I begged my dad to take me to the premiere at TIFF to see Olivia Wilde in person. He did and the two of us had a wonderful evening of me trying not to die and him taking pictures of me trying not to die. I can’t believe how low the ratings are for this film and how few people have seen it! It’s one of my favourites and not just for the excellent memory of Olivia Wilde speaking in a room in front of me attached to it.

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