Love & Canada: Life Finds A Way (To Get In The Way)

I spent the last seven days working and having a lot of feelings and compiling a to-do list instead of actually doing any of the items on it. (Shannon was also away for work, which meant collaborative decision-making was down the drain.) I'm gonna address the few updates there are and then just talk about things I haven't talked about because immigrations and weddings are complicated.

notice how almost nothing is crossed off it's fine I'm fine

My Lesbian Immigration Marriage Feelings, Part 3
15. I bought a wedding magazine.
The options online started to seem overwhelming and I felt over them and also over how much time I was looking at my laptop to look at them so I bought the first issue of Catalyst, a feminist wedding magazine...

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Ryan Yates

Ryan Yates was the NSFW Editor (2013–2018) and Literary Editor for Autostraddle.com, with bylines in Nylon, Refinery29, The Toast, Bitch, The Daily Beast, Jezebel, and elsewhere. They live in Los Angeles and also on twitter and instagram.

Ryan has written 1142 articles for us.