Into the A+ Advice Box #41: When There Hasn’t Been Sex in a Long Time

Welcome to the 41st edition of Into the A+ Advice Box, in which we answer all the queer and lesbian advice questions from A+ members who submitted their queries into our A+ ask box! Here, we answer your questions in a space just for A+ members, safe from the general public. (No guarantees regarding your ex, however.) Here, the Autostraddle team’s doling out advice on everything from sex and relationships, to friend and family dynamics, career questions, style, and more! We’re doing this column TWICE a month, now.

General Announcement: we're trying a new thing where the second Into the A+ Advice Box of each month will be themed. This month's theme is MAKING ADULT FRIENDS! Please get your questions in by Monday, August 9, 2021! We'll continue to have a general Into the A+ Advice Box, like this one, published on the first Friday of each month.

So, let's dig in!

Q1:
Hey loves. I want an Alternative Lifestyle Haircut but I have always had a problem with figuring out what would...

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