Into the A+ Advice Box #41: When There Hasn’t Been Sex in a Long Time

Welcome to the 41st edition of Into the A+ Advice Box, in which we answer all the queer and lesbian advice questions from A+ members who submitted their queries into our A+ ask box! Here, we answer your questions in a space just for A+ members, safe from the general public. (No guarantees regarding your ex, however.) Here, the Autostraddle team’s doling out advice on everything from sex and relationships, to friend and family dynamics, career questions, style, and more! We’re doing this column TWICE a month, now.

General Announcement: we're trying a new thing where the second Into the A+ Advice Box of each month will be themed. This month's theme is MAKING ADULT FRIENDS! Please get your questions in by Monday, August 9, 2021! We'll conti...

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