Girl-On-World: In Which Our Music Editor Visits Malta, Sicily

Right now I’m kicking around the Mediterranean and the Middle East with my girlfriend on an all-expenses paid-vacation that I could never afford myself. Over the span of a few weeks I’ll be exploring two countries, two islands and two Arab emirates, via eight planes, one boat and, hopefully, some camels, abras and horse-drawn carriages.

When I told my people that I would be visiting places like Malta and Modica, it was clear that not many knew where those places were, exactly, or why people would want to visit them. I didn’t know either; prior to this trip my knowledge of the Mediterranean was limited to antipasto and the Santorini location shots featured in The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants.

At first I wasn’t going to write this feature, running on the (correct) assumption that the somewhat conservative Catholic and Islamic regions that I would be visiting wouldn’t offer up too many queer experiences. But then I got here and I discovered the most adorable and humble places and people that I felt compelled to document every precious little moment. Most of them involved food. This is actually a food blog.

Part 1 – The Mediterranean

First Stop: Malta

I’d heard from a reliable source that the Maltese make the world’s best pastry and, being highly food motivated, that was something I was prepared to travel to the ends of the earth for.

Malta is a small island located in the middle of the Mediterranean Sea, occupied by a mere half-million locals spread out over three small historical cities. The city I was drawn to, and stayed in, was the city of Valletta, a seaside business and government district that was built in the 16th Century by the Knights Hospitaller, aka The Knights of Malta.

Moments after checking into the hotel, the Phoenician, we were herded towards a popular tourist attraction called The Malta Experience, a short documentary about the history of Malta and Valletta.

What are we doing?
We’re seeing a movie called The Malta Experience.
Can’t we just have the Malta experience.

The film was recommended with the argument that we needed to know a little about Malta’s history in order to fully understand and appreciate its unique Arabian and European influenced landscape, language and culture. Said history is best described as turbulent – due to easy access by sea, Malta was subject to a series of invasions by the French, Greeks, Romans, Sicilians, British, Turkish and seemingly every other region from 418 B.C. t0 1800 A.D, before finally gaining independence in 1964.

Despite its political and administrative functions, the city of Valletta is hugely romantic. It’s largely due to Baroque architecture; beyond the city’s huge sandstone gates are villas, piazzas, palaces, churches and museums that line narrow cobblestone streets…

….most leading to the sea. On the edge of the city is Fort St. Elmo, a giant rock fortress built by the Knights of Malta to protect their creation.

Stepping through the city gates of Valletta is stepping into a time warp, around every corner was a scene straight from an old movie. If you wake up early enough you can spot local bakers hanging boxes of freshly baked bread on hooks beside the locals’ front doors.

Above them, ladies wave and shout out greetings as they leaned out their villa windows to hang their laundry. Even the hotel lobby was a throwback to the classics, with elderly couples in tuxedos and costume jewelery slow dancing to a classical pianist on a baby grand while butlers ran from table to table, pouring olive martinis. It was so beautiful and surreal that, despite being in a state of full Autostraddle withdrawl, I abstained from using the lounge’s free wifi out of fear that the glare from my shiny silver Macbook would kill the mood.

Part of the romance of Malta is likely due to the fact that, with the exception of souveineir stores and a few bank and retail franchises, many local businesses haven’t updated their look or operations since opening their doors decades, or even centuries, ago.

As we walked through Valletta’s little lanes we stopped to purchase envelopes from ye ol’ stationer, and to eat an assortment of date cakes and other baked goods from old wooden street carts. The most common taxis were horse and carriage.

Outside the gates was the most terrifying and yet surprisingly reliable form of transport I’ve yet to experience: the Malta bus network. The bright yellow buses in the 500-strong fleet are on average 35 years old. Each one has its own distinct age and character, having been custom painted by its driver with slogans, graphics, and quotes by everyone from Jesus to Bob Marley.

The first bus I rode dated back to the 1930s, its original interior featured cracked plywood and rusted steel benches that were purpose built for tiny Meditteranian bodies. I am not tiny. In order to stand I had to duck, or in order to sit I had to stretch my long legs across the aisle into the opposing seat space. Disembarking like the locals do – that is, while the bus is still in motion – is the closest I’ve ever come to feeling good about paying $136 for travel insurance.

In an effort to dine like the Maltese do, we ate at little Maltese restaurants located off the beaten tourist path. More often than not, menus were written in Malti and so every meal began with a guessing game. While most dishes were common and easy enough to decipher, there were plenty of local specialties delivered to our table too, such as pan-fried rabbit and sea urchin linguine. It was not only some of the most spectacular food I’ve eaten, it was also some of the most affordable.

We also spent a lot of time sampling Malta’s other famous specialties: pastizzis. If you’re unaware, pastizzis are pastry crack; piping hot diamonds filled with cheese or crushed peas that were sold by street vendors for a whooping $0.25 cents each. Before not too long we found ourselves unwilling to start our day without first stopping on the sidewalk to wolf down these cheesy pastry delights straight from their greasy paper bags. My clothes no longer fit, but they were totally worth it. World’s best pastry indeed.

Malta just may have some of the world’s best people, too. One of the most interesting and noticeable aspects about the locals is that they didn’t seem to follow any recognizable fashions or trends, everyone had a unique style and attitude and they seemed to dance to their own beat. They were welcoming, too. On one occasion we were admiring some paintings by local artist Priscilla Ainhoa Griscti in the hotel lobby, and one phone call and 15 minutes later we were sitting in a Valletta cafe with the artist and her family, discussing art and drinking espresso. Afterward we received an invitation to visit her home studio. That kind of hospitality is hard to come by.

It only took one day to fall head over heels in love with Malta, and only a week to realise that one day I want to move there. I’ve traveled to many cities and, perhaps with the exception of visiting Venice, in Italy, I can’t remember feeling so much at home, or at peace. It’s hard to believe that we almost couldn’t get here, that there’s serious warfare raging only a few hundred miles away.


Second stop: Sicily

When I learned that we would be flying to the south of Italy for just one evening, I nearly choked on my pastizzi. But I didn’t realise that we were only a stone’s throw away. Despite being seperated by the Mediterranian Sea, it turns out that Sicily is only a half-hour plane ride or 2-hour ride from Malta, close enough for tourists and locals to make a return trip in just one day.

Upon landing we went on an extended car ride through the Sicilian countryside, passing 1.5 hours of the winding roads and the greenest of paddocks. Our destination was Modica, a tiny historical city founded in 1300 B.C and located in the province of Ragusa. Modica is primarily known for its churches and chocolate, as well as its unique position in the valley of a mountain range.

The night’s accommodation was at the Palazzo Failla, a boutique 4-star hotel near the top of the Modica valley. The hotel suite had the characteristics of old Sicilian architecture and decor, including ceramic tiles, wrought iron fixtures, and an 8-metre tall cathedral-style ceiling decorated with naked cherubs. Those were slightly creepy.

Lunch was four unforgettable courses at La Gazza Landra Ristorante, a Michelin-starred restaurant attached to the hotel that was, admittedly, the main reason that we had crossed the border. After the first bite of my scampi and pistachio-stuffed arancino, any reservations I’d had about needing a passport to go to a restaurant had vanished. It was the kind of place where even the bread basket was a piece of epic culinary art.

One of Modica’s defining features is a series of steep stone staircases that run from the top of the valley down to the very bottom. After lunch we tackled them, taking the hundreds of stairs until we reached a main street filled with cafes and tourist shops. Despite their city attracting plenty of tourists, the Modica locals spoke limited English. I found myself silently thanking my 6th grade Italian teacher for teaching me how to order a double espresso because they were out of this world, capable of putting a stupid grin on my face and making my eyes glaze over.

Traveling down the stairs was a breeze compared to walking back up, which was hell. Along the way we took a series of time-outs at some of Modica’s more well-known landmarks, including the stunning Cathedral of San Giorgio.

The stairs eventually broke my spirit and I spent the remainder of my time in Sicily taking a nap.

The End. Until I get to the Middle East next week!

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  1. Omigaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawd I’m so so so so so in love with your pics. My #1 tourist magnets are churches. They’re just so pretty!

    How on earth did you get this all-expense paid? So jealous, but eagerly waiting for your next report =P

  2. This is amazing and you and your photos are beautiful and I am epically jealous. Can’t wait for the next installment!

    • um, yes, why is no one paying for my (imaginary) lavish, awesome vacation?

  3. Wow! Such a great experience for you and your gf. Thanks for sharing with us, looking forward to the next article.

    I would love to do that sort of traveling… maybe someday.

  4. This was excellent! A wonderful little travelogue. Thanks so much, Crystal, and AS!

  5. this is brilliant.
    but i think you should call this Photos Of Crystal Pointing At Stuff.

    • Thanks!
      My girlfriend and I intended to create a ‘Crystal Pointing At Stuff’ vacation montage, but then half-way through I got camera shy and didn’t want to be in photos anymore.

  6. I have so many feelings, I have to organize them into numbered bullet points (#1 feeling).
    #2 This is absolutely amazing.
    #3 You are so lucky.
    #4 I have missed reading you.
    #5 Your tattoo still looks incredible.
    #6 Your pointing is making me want to travel right this second.
    #6.5 Which made me realize that my San Francisco(US)/Nice(France)/Firenze(Italy) vacation is super soon and I am now more exited than ever.

    In conclusion: FUCK YES, CRYSTAL.

    • thanks! You’re lucky too – I’ve always wanted to go to Florence, I think you should write a Girl On World piece for us, just throwing that out there.

  7. I WILL BE IN SICILY FOR 5 DAYS IN JUNE !!! I absolutely loved reading this, can’t wait to read the continuation!

    • You should try to get to Modica, it is so cute! You could take the boat across to Malta.

      I hope you’ll write about the rest of Sicily, I only saw a tiny part of it.

    • You should come down to Malta for a day :P We’ll give you the graaaaand tour :D

  8. Glad you enjoyed my home country, I’m from Malta :)to get the full Maltese experience though one must go clubbing in Paceville xD also try imqaret which are sweet, date-filled pastry served piping hot and then try fit into your clothes, they are super addictive :P

    • ^Ditto

      Yes. Another Hello from Malta. :)

      Thanks for the positive review. Nice to hear that you had a wonderful time.

      • I’m coming to live with you guys, okay? I feel like I’ve only experienced a very tiny part of your country so far (obvs the tourist part), I want to see more.

        • Haha cool! There are quite a few more things to experience, you need a proper tour by someone who knows all the fun places on this island (yes, I volunteer). Many people who visit say they want to live here, yet most of my friends want to leave…It’s hands down a beautiful place to visit though, especially in Summer, the beaches, the sun, the parties….that is a life-changing experience in itself! Also loads of other cities like Valletta full of history and stuff :P

        • Sure We’ll find you a place where to stay. ;)
          Yes I agree that you should get a tour by us locals for sure. And well you already have 2 volunteers.

          There is also more to food here than just pastizzi. I can recommend a few.

          Glad to hear someone say the public transport was “reliable”. You don’t hear that too often.

          P.S. I’m one of those who wants to leave Malta. xD

        • Glad you enjoyed your trip to Malta! (I’m Maltese too)

          Next time let us know and we’ll definitely hook you up!!
          We’ll give you a proper tour! We’re hospitable like that! :)
          Maybe we’ll even invite you for a proper home cooked meal! (You can’t miss out on somethin like that!);)

          Loving the article and the site in general!! :)
          Keep up the good work!! :D

          • Yes, we’re first class when it comes to home cooked meals :D also seeing as we are a tiny island, Lynn do I know you :P

          • Yes, we’re a very, very tiny island!
            As you can see everyone seems to know everyone else!
            Or at the very least know of them!
            Especially in the LGBT community!

            I don’t know, do I??! Haha!

          • hurm mysterious, won’t you reveal your secret identity? :P I thought I was the only one from Malta who reads AS

          • Gaby, don’t be surprised that people don’t know who you are. I know at about 4 gay and bi women named Gaby.

            Still can’t tell which one you are.

          • Well I’m not bi, so that should narrow it down and…I’m awesome and hardcore cool ;) does that help? :P

          • Ok so 1 down. xDDD I’m really bad at this.

            Big Ego too. :P Thinking you’re the only person from malta who reads AS.

  9. i’ve been many places, but never managed to get to malta. after seeing your pictures and reading about it, it’s shot to the top of my list.
    i love that feeling of coming back home to a city you’ve never been to. that happened to me with london and amsterdam when i was abroad in 2009. it’s so weird how i felt more at home in cities i was in for less than a week than places i’ve lived for years on end. i hope you do eventually move to malta!! :)
    looking forward to your next installment!

  10. I have always wanted to go to Malta – even more so now I have seen your pics! Enjoy your next leg..

  11. These photos are fantastic! Have sooo much fun, I don’t know how you couldn’t.

    Also, I totally remember doing the same thing at San Giorgio, I had just come off a horrendous overnight SNAV ferry from Naples and couldn’t walk straight and pretty much said fuck it to the stairs. Or that might have been another church. There’s a church on every block in Sicily.

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  13. Crystal, this looks amazing. I am extremely jealous. But going to Europe in August, so I will now spend a large proportion of my day not working and daydreaming about places to go…

  14. oh man this looks like so much fun! I haven’t left the country in about 5 years and it’s slowly killing me on the inside. I look forward to the next installment!

  15. i think i have a photo of me sitting on those same steps also. i’m not pointing, but i just feel more special now!

  16. This is excellent and brings back wonderful memories. I went to Malta before going to Greece a few summers ago, and upon eating pastizzis, decided that it was absolutely perfect.

  17. i want everyone to know that crystal sent me a calendar from malta called “CATS OF MALTA & GOZO” and these cats have really fucking serious feelings

  18. Dear Crystal, I had never seen a proper photo of you before. I would like to say I think you’re very good-looking. Also, am super jealous of this all-expenses paid trip. Sincerely,nico.

  19. I’m not going to lie – the photo of you being owned by the stairs made me laugh on CityRail to the point where people were staring. I had a similar moment in Japan at Inari Shrine! (Worst part about stairs – after you walk up them, YOU HAVE TO WALK DOWN. WHY.)

  20. Are you going to Abu Dhabi and Dubai? Because that’s totally where I live! But I’m at school in the US now so sadness. :(

  21. this is great! it makes me feel like i haven’t seen a blue sky in a very long time and that i want to live somewhere that has a lot of visible horizon. sidenote my first ever boss was from malta, he (still) owns a portuguese chicken burger-based fast food franchise.

  22. I will never forget the amazing food in Malta! I went there a few years ago, not really expecting much from it,and now I’m constantly trying to convince people to go back with me!
    Maybe I’ll show them this to convince them…

  23. Everything about Malta looks/sounds amazing, but basically:

    “We also spent a lot of time sampling Malta’s other famous specialties: pastizzis. If you’re unaware, pastizzis are pastry crack; piping hot diamonds filled with cheese or crushed peas that were sold by street vendors for a whooping $0.25 cents each.”

    And I am SOLD. Time to start planning a new dream trip…

  24. Im so glad you’re having a good time in Malta ;D
    Before you go to the ME (the UAE in particular) you should install a VPN on your laptop. I was in Dubai and Abu Dhabi last week and to my surprise Autostraddle was blocked. I do know its not blocked in a couple other countries in the region… Giving you a heads up just incase. Otherwise have a good ol time and enjoy the great weather :)

    • I was in Dubai and Abu Dhabi last week too! I was expecting Autostraddle to be blocked, howevs surprisingly enough it worked just fine. Possibly because I was using the hotel wi-fi.

  25. Wow. Malta looks amazing and is now on my list of Places I Would Visit Immediately If I Had Money To Do So.

    Also, mostly unrelated but: Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants. Yes.

  26. Those hills look worst than in San Francisco or Sausalito, it’s painfull but you have to do it, in the end the best pictures ever !!!!

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