Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Zumio X and Zumio S
If you know you like oscillation and fairly high intensity options, there’s a good chance one of the Zumios could be your new fave vibe!
Sex + Relationships
No Tinder, No Problem: The Ancient Art of Asking Someone on a Gay Date IRL
It might seem like everybody is swiping, but if that’s not your jam, here’s some tips on the age-old art of asking someone out IRL.
Safe Sexting: Tech Tips for the Stress-Free Sexting You Deserve
The world is full of unknown and terrifying possibilities, like accidentally sending a nude to the family group chat because it was the most recent thing on your camera roll. Protect yourself and loved ones against these dangers and more with easy tips!
You Need Help: How Do I Get My Sexual Confidence Back?
You’re at your most vulnerable when you describe how afraid you are of never being desired by another again. Own that vulnerability, because really owning our soft parts is part of what confidence is.
10 Queers Get Honest About Ghosting
Communication is hard, especially when you have to tell someone something they might not want to hear, which is why sometimes we… just don’t do it!
Yes/No/Maybe: Pink Lightbulbs and Wine Butt Plugs
“I’m gonna give this one an enthusiastic YES for the sole reason of their weird cow advertising.”
How to Choose Dating App Photos That’ll Have Babes Swiping Hell Yes
You want to look like your best self: fun, hot, interesting, and lez be real, it doesn’t hurt if you look like you might actually send the first message.
You Need Help: Seeking Poly People and (Relationship) Anarchy in Small Town, U.S.A.
The first statement of the Relationship Anarchy Manifesto is that “Love is abundant,” so why don’t we start there? Love is abundant. What kind of love do you want to create in your life?
Queer Horoscopes for March 2019: Considering Wild New Possibilities
This month Uranus, patron planet of queers and revolutionaries, moves into the sign of the lesbian Earth goddess. How will our relationship to security and sensuality need to transform?
8 Cute Gay Dates Inspired by Lesbian Movies of 2018
You may not find all these movies romantic date material, but that doesn’t mean there isn’t something to work with there.
11 Queers Share the Best and Worst Lines They’ve Gotten on Dating Apps
“’Look a little crazy huh’ with no punctuation.”
For Your Consideration: Read Your Enemy’s Horoscope
If you are seeking wise, wholesome advice about heartbreak, this is admittedly not the right place to find it today.
How to Talk to Your Hot Gay Crush About Astrology When You Don’t Believe In It
It is a truth universally acknowledged that if you’re dating in any way, shape or form right now, the topic is going to come up and people you probably want to have sex with are going to care about where the planets were on the day you were born.
What I’m Saying Is You’re Stuck With Me
February 7th was our 14th dating anniversary and our 8th marriage anniversary. The truth is, I didn’t see myself married, in a house we own, with a child I carried, in a place in my life where I don’t want to move away or run off to the next tempting thing. I never thought I’d want stability, but here we are.
Yes, Virginia, Queer Women Can Casually Date: Here’s How It Works
If this is a thing you want, you can do it in 2019! This is our year! I believe in you / us / our ability to not get married on the third date.
Like a Little Act of Vengeance: F*cking While Fat
Fuck. While fat. Don’t wait.
10 Queers on How They Figure Out if It’s a Date
She just said, plainly, “We are going to sleep together tonight.” And I said, “Oh, okay!”
Ex Confessions: A Real-World Guide to Sleeping With Your Ex
This is probably not a good idea. BUT! The body wants what it wants and it’s okay for us to make mistakes sometimes and gosh darnit, if we’re going to do this thing we might as well do it as consciously as we can.
Queer Horoscopes for February 2019: Time to Get Romantic with Yourself
February can really hurt. It’s a time when we all need a little extra love. Luckily for all of us lucky queers, we’ve got each other.
Sharing Is Caring: 10 Sex Toys Perfect for Couples This Valentine’s Day
Although you can have fun getting busy with a partner with any kind of toy you’re into, these toys designed specifically with couples in mind can leave you and your cutie feeling more satisfied than a Domino’s heart-shaped pizza this Valentine’s Day.