“Oh my god, I just remembered — I put Starsi on my crotch and my partner straddled me and it honestly felt like I was an alien and we ALMOST kind of did role play?? Even though we’re NOT into that. But I was like, what if you got abducted and had sex with the alien and they had vibrating genitals!!!”
Our ongoing adult sex ed requires a little research. These books on queer sex address the questions you didn’t get to ask in health class.
Made me want to / and I did tap / that ass / many times / made it mine.
“Do you think he’ll notice if I just never come out of the bathroom?”
Let us be thankful, today and all days, for butts. The possibilities for butt play and pleasure seem almost endless — not only inside, but also outside! This guide walks beginners to impact play through slappers, crops, and light paddles and floggers, helping you find the perfect match for you and your butt (or someone else’s).
Winter is coming, so we’re turning up the heat with Halloween costumes that are also hot role play costumes. You’re welcome.
Consider this your invitation to stop hiding, loosen your cheeks and let your sphincter siren sing for the one(s) you love.
There is no quantifiable metric for being over someone. If you’re ready to date, you’re ready to date.
Check out these better butt plugs and toys for Butt Week! Our picks come in confetti, hardwood, stainless steel, tie dye (!) and more.
“Nothing, and I mean nothing, feels as nice as stainless steel on your asshole.”
“How are you liking all this social distancing? It’s cool that you write for Autostraddle”
“Looking for a baby who wants to be pleasured and punished in the most loving of ways. I may look adorable, but I’m quite powerful and will make you shake with joy or fear – if you behave you get to choose.”
Relationships change. Relationships end. It’s not inconsiderate to move forward; sometimes being a good ex means maintaining boundaries.
As we stock up on toys and lube for winter, we can put our queer money back into queer-owned sex shops!
Whether you’re a newbie or a sex toy savant, these tips will help you curate the sex toy collection of your dirty dreams.
First I became a cloud-woman. Min had always liked watching them as a child, one of her only good memories from that period. I lifted up my skirts, let her lap up my water. Her mouth was covered in dew when I kissed her.
Dating Download is a new ongoing series where Shelli, Dani and Drew try out the latest or most overlooked of dating apps so you don’t have to. Today they’re giving you the full download on XO.
What do we feel our sexual IDs “mean” about us as “people”? Do they have overlaps with our sense of self outside of bed? Do we notice others assuming these things about us (or projecting them onto us)? If so, is that annoying or helpful? Do they get at authentic ways that our sexual dynamics are natural expressions of other parts of our personhood?
Six months into the global pandemic, Libra energy is here to help us find balance in an unbalanced world.
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