As a queer, demisexual Libra, I was made to love, to be loved, and to make love (under certain conditions).

If you’re feeling sexual desire for friends or if you like the idea of a “friends with benefits” situation, then it seems that most widely-accepted definition of “demisexual” still encompasses your experience. But the more important questions here are: what do you want and why do you want it?

Advice for coping with a parent who’s an addict, being accountable to people you’re dating, and more!

I’ve been thinking about it almost every day lately.

While using knowledge about one’s attachment style to build lines of communication with a partner and to manage conflict can be super helpful, letting yourself hang onto false hope because of attachment theory is not going to help you.

“I have strong sexual feelings for another good friend of mine. They have a partner already and are poly.”

This week on NSFW Sunday: ridiculous sex tips, BDSM myths, and a reminder that your vagina is awesome.

“I’ve been out and queer for a long time now, and I get quite a bit of attention from people. I have a lot of self-confidence and if I’m into somebody, I’m not afraid to make a move. My problem, though, is that I’m just never into anybody.”

You are telling me one thing, which is that your wife and you communicate well and she cares for you, and then I am seeing something different, which is that your needs are continuously deprioritized in the relationship, and that seems to be how things play out when it comes to your wife’s actions.

What do you owe someone during a friend breakup? Also, a reader wonders about the right time to ask if someone’s interested in dating them.

“I still wear my actual red Straddle This boxers!!”

“It’s another day and another event at the converted church, Paradiso with DJs playing everything from Arabic edits to Afro House and baile funk. This time, I’ve accidentally attended what seems to be an exclusively Gen Z night and I am about ten years older than everyone there.” This week, we’re following a 29-year-old queer woman in Amsterdam as she embarks on a week of putting herself out there after a dating hiatus.

From how to have a first lesbian experience to how to be horny and demisexual! If you’re thinking hmm these queers seem to know what they’re talking about then go ahead and send in your own question!

Everything Now finds an impressive balance: It doesn’t romanticize eating disorders, of course, but it also doesn’t sensationalize them.

Purim is one of the queerest Jewish holidays. Let’s celebrate accordingly.

Margaret Killjoy is a master world-builder. Her first young adult book, The Sapling Cage, comes out next month.

I finally realized that it is completely possible to be asexual, experience some sexual attraction and enjoy sex — even if you’re only having sex with yourself.

Will your friend ever want to be something more? Can you be friends with your friend’s ex? The team answers these questions and more!

Poetry, contemporary YA, science fiction, short stories, essay collections, graphic novels, and more!

Kiss Her Once for Me is a truly stellar example of not just a holiday romance or a queer romance, but of any kind of romance.