• On Performing in The Vagina Monologues When You Don’t Have a Vagina

    “There’s an annoying song that’s only playing all the way through all day long on some days. Others, I can barely hear the chorus, and others I can’t hear it all. But every day, I know that that song will be there again one day, maybe even tomorrow, maybe even later that same day. And I hate this song.”

  • I Had Facial Feminization Surgery

    “I paid a dude to knock me unconscious, peel back my face, and cut out chunks of my skull and jaw.”

  • Fat, Trans and (Working on Being) Fine With It

    “Not only do I have to deal with the crippling dysphoria that comes from having a body that I often don’t even recognize as my own, I also have to deal with the cultural misogyny that tells me that a woman can’t be as big and fat as I am and still be desirable.”