Valentine’s Day Cards For Queer Women


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  1. I lost it at the U-Haul, Erin. :)

    You know, I actually bought my first “same-sex card” at the grocery store this year for my wife. I can’t really get over the shock.

  2. True story: when my wife proposed to me she asked me if I would be her “Alex Cabot” to her “Olivia Benson”

    … I said yes, as long as we promised never to let Fred Thompson come between us.

  3. Dorky bad pun valentines are my favorite thing about this time of year.

    Love the Ghostbusters one especially, even if it’s not really a pun.

  4. Thanks That I understood 99% of these makes me feel a bit less single… I am buying flowers for myself on “V” Day (what DOES the V standard for, hmmm?)

  5. I. Can’t. Even.

    Erin, are you sure you’re not a grounder? Because you’ve shot an arrow through my heart with these….

  6. I was enjoying these and then I got to Olivia Benson and just died.
    I think my wife is slightly jealous of my crush on OB though so I probably will not get a card with her on it – unless it said something like “who is actually real, actually gay and actually loves you back… NOT OLIVIA BENSON”

  7. Bah haha! love it
    ok, who’s making more? I need one featuring Arizona and Callie… And more ghostbusters, always more Kate!

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