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There are times when I look above and beyond
There are times when I feel your love around me baby
I'll never forget my baby
When I feel that I don't belong
Draw my strength from the words when you said
Hey, it's about you, baby
Look deeper inside you, baby

[Pre-Chorus]
Dream about us together again
What I want: us together again, baby
I know we'll be together again, 'cause

[Chorus]
Everywhere I go, every smile I see
I know you are there smilin' back at me
Dancin in moonlight I know you are free
'Cause I can see your star shinin' down on me

— Janet Jackson, Together Again

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