Everybody Publicly and Shamelessly Flirt With Each Other Right Now
Literally why not.
lesbian dating
How To Move in With a Partner and Still Like Each Other After
Sure, it’s nice to have an extra person to help you carry boxes, but who will carry all of these feelings?
Y’All Need Help #9: You Don’t Owe Anyone a F*cking Explanation
You ID’d as a lesbian and now you’re dating a dude and your friends are like WHAT. You’ve been single for nine years and wondering if it’s time to give up. You know of some queer people but aren’t sure if you should mention it. LET’S GO.
The Freest Bird in the Cage
The women I kiss like to drink red wine, and I drink them in. I taste red wine and I move past it; my deliverance lies elsewhere.
Y’All Need Help #8: Cross That Bridge When You Come to It!
Should you come out in high school or let them hear about it out later? Can you date a person with a kid if you don’t want kids? How do you take it slow with all these mixed signals?? Let’s find out!
You Need Help: It’s Okay If You Haven’t Had Sex Yet
Don’t think of not having had sex as a disadvantage — think of it like a secret weapon.
Here’s Who Got #NationalGirlfriendDay Right On Twitter
Straight people are at it again.
Y’All Need Help #7: On Gently Obliterating Hearts
One reader wants to be single when she start college, another is 26 and still hasn’t found The Love Of Her Life, and yet another reader is wondering if she should leave her closeted girlfriend. Get in here!
This Lesbian Made Her Own Dating Website and It Will Blow You Away
Heather says: “I am a good communicator, I have a lot to offer a potential partner/wife and I would love to share my amazing life with someone equally amazing, kind and compassionate.”
8 Chill Tips For When You Get Turned Down By A Straight Girl
Knowing better and doing better is a U-turn opening, and then there’s us smiling in our car, driving directly and proudly into the median.
Carly Rae Jepsen’s “Your Type” Is a Moody Trans Girl Anthem
My favorite Carly Rae Jepsen song is “Your Type” — maybe because it’s so easy to read a trans girl subtext into the lyrics.
All My Exes Live in Brooklyn
“They were a union organizer and liked to throw themed parties (for example: Naked Brunch). One time I bought Gap jeans and they called me a capitalist pig dog. They were not wrong.”
Escape Room: Lesbian Relationship Edition!
It’s a race against the clock as the urge to merge has upgraded from cohabitation, a mixing of finances, and the dissolution of self to pet ownership! You and your partner leave for the adoption agency in one hour unless you can solve a series of puzzles that’ll free you from this prison of your own making!
5 New Dating Apps For Queer Women That Will Change Your Life
Take a look at these five new super queer-friendly dating apps and download the one that most floats your boat.
55 Gayest Ways You Met Your Significant Other(s), According to the Autostraddle Reader Survey
“Smashing the patriarchy and organizing for a rape crisis center on our college campus while also taking a gender studies class. Also I was a data point in her thesis. It was about gender neutral housing.”
A Very Sensible, Queer Guide To Sending the First Message On Tinder
14 opening lines that will have you burning up Tinder (with queer pop culture references!).
Is Love a Lie? Our Staff Weighs In
Everything’s fine!
Holigay Gift Guide 2016: Gifts for Your Friend with Benefits
Maintaining the balance between “I like you and think you’re cool to hang with and sometimes bang” and “we’re dating” is tough, but these gifts will help you out.
You Need Help: Your Best Friend Has Feelings for You, Lives 1000s of Miles Away
There is safety in distance, a whole lot of it — distance lets us be different version of ourselves, or to reveal parts of ourselves we haven’t shown to the light before. It allows us to be bold, and take risks.
Aggressively Adorable Gifts to Make the Long-Distance Dating Struggle a Little Easier
Ease the sting of distance with these mostly practical (but yes, some are sappy… DISTANCE IS HARD, y’all) gifts.