Literally why not.
Sure, it’s nice to have an extra person to help you carry boxes, but who will carry all of these feelings?
You ID’d as a lesbian and now you’re dating a dude and your friends are like WHAT. You’ve been single for nine years and wondering if it’s time to give up. You know of some queer people but aren’t sure if you should mention it. LET’S GO.
The women I kiss like to drink red wine, and I drink them in. I taste red wine and I move past it; my deliverance lies elsewhere.
Should you come out in high school or let them hear about it out later? Can you date a person with a kid if you don’t want kids? How do you take it slow with all these mixed signals?? Let’s find out!
Don’t think of not having had sex as a disadvantage — think of it like a secret weapon.
Straight people are at it again.
One reader wants to be single when she start college, another is 26 and still hasn’t found The Love Of Her Life, and yet another reader is wondering if she should leave her closeted girlfriend. Get in here!
Heather says: “I am a good communicator, I have a lot to offer a potential partner/wife and I would love to share my amazing life with someone equally amazing, kind and compassionate.”
Knowing better and doing better is a U-turn opening, and then there’s us smiling in our car, driving directly and proudly into the median.
My favorite Carly Rae Jepsen song is “Your Type” — maybe because it’s so easy to read a trans girl subtext into the lyrics.
“They were a union organizer and liked to throw themed parties (for example: Naked Brunch). One time I bought Gap jeans and they called me a capitalist pig dog. They were not wrong.”
It’s a race against the clock as the urge to merge has upgraded from cohabitation, a mixing of finances, and the dissolution of self to pet ownership! You and your partner leave for the adoption agency in one hour unless you can solve a series of puzzles that’ll free you from this prison of your own making!
Take a look at these five new super queer-friendly dating apps and download the one that most floats your boat.
“Smashing the patriarchy and organizing for a rape crisis center on our college campus while also taking a gender studies class. Also I was a data point in her thesis. It was about gender neutral housing.”
14 opening lines that will have you burning up Tinder (with queer pop culture references!).
Maintaining the balance between “I like you and think you’re cool to hang with and sometimes bang” and “we’re dating” is tough, but these gifts will help you out.
There is safety in distance, a whole lot of it — distance lets us be different version of ourselves, or to reveal parts of ourselves we haven’t shown to the light before. It allows us to be bold, and take risks.
Ease the sting of distance with these mostly practical (but yes, some are sappy… DISTANCE IS HARD, y’all) gifts.