How I Listen to True Crime After Knowing a Murderer
Media makes it convenient to think of murder as an act that starts with a body and ends with a verdict. Murder is a crime with a long tail.
Mini Crossword Does Enjoy Oranges Though
The real friends were the crossword puzzles we solved along the way.
Queen Latifah Walked the Met Carpet With Her Partner Eboni Nichols, It Matters
Queen Latifah being flirtatious and chivalrous to her partner, live and in front of cameras? I am on my knees. We used to dream for days like this!!
How To Dress in Gay Tenniscore After Seeing ‘Challengers’
The goal with queer Tenniscore is to look like you could seamlessly transition from being courtside to being at the gay club/party.
Met Gala 2024: Who’s All Gay Here? The Best in This Year’s Queer Fashion
It’s the Met! And you know what that means! It’s time to look upon hot queers, poke a some fun at celebrity culture, and give flowers the designers, culture workers, and glam teams that make this topsy-turvy fashion world go ’round.
Very Special Gay Episode: The One Where I Write About the ‘Friends’ Lesbian Wedding
It could happen in real life, couldn’t it? It had happened on Friends and everyone loved Friends.
I Finally Met Someone Cute IRL — Now What Do I Do?
“For years I’ve been wishing I could meet someone organically, off the apps, and now that that’s happened I have no idea what I’m doing!”
What Drag Has Taught Me
Every time I have gotten the opportunity to do mediocre drag as a beginner, I have had some of the most fun a person can have.
Praise for Buck’s Bisexuality Keeps Erasing 9-1-1’s Black Lesbians (Who’ve Been There THE WHOLE TIME)
Everyone needs to stop erasing Hen when you talk about Buck on 9-1-1, Devery Jacobs and Evan Rachel Wood Bisexual to star in a queerleading movie, SNL’s JoJo Siwa skit, Janelle Monáe joins a movie musical from Pharrell, and more!
Should You Delete Your Ex?
There’s nothing an iPhone loves more than forcing a slideshow of your ex on you when you least expect it.
‘Challengers’ Is Catnip for Bisexuals — And Finally Gives Zendaya a Role Worthy of Her Talent
Zendaya commands the screen with no caveats. She’s not good with what she’s given (Dune) or good despite the mediocre writing (Euphoria). She’s just… good. No, she’s great. No, she’s the best.
A Trans Guy Watches ‘She’s the Man’ for the First Time
I avoided the 2006 teen comedy She’s the Man for almost two decades. Now it was finally time to watch it.
Rich People Should Be Less Boring
Like many, my feelings about the Met Gala are complicated.
Mini Crossword Is What? Sickening
This crossword is pretty gay!
A Love Letter to Cuddle Dates
I love cuddle dates because they’re my neurodivergent heaven: comfy and quiet. They also fit into anti-heteronormative approaches to romance and affection.
Quiz: Which Chaotic Gay Pop Song Is Your Last Breakup’s Anthem?
You won’t find sage or sincere breakup advice here — this quiz is all about leaning into the MESS and CHAOS.
This Femme Started Wearing Cargo Shorts, and You Can Too
Most days I just go full dyke and wear them with a tee shirt and Toms, but I will also pair them with a cute floral top and ballet flats.
I’m Not a Woman — Except When These Songs Are On
I’m not a woman except for the four minutes and five seconds Shania Twain’s ‘Any Man of Mine’ comes up on shuffle like three or four times a week. Y’all wouldn’t get it.
AF+ Crossword Is Out of Corny Jokes
No, really, I (the crossword editor) have finally exhausted all the good bad jokes I can find on the internet.
Boobs on Your Tube: Has ‘Station 19’ Lost the Plot on Maya and Carina?
Plus updates on The Equalizer’s queerest episode to date, All American, and the new nonbinary AI character on Beacon 23!