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Politics + Activism

Be The Change: Allies, Accomplices and Collective Liberation

What’s the difference between ally and accomplice? How can you use these terms to think about how you’re in solidarity with others?

KaeLyn May 4, 2019 5 Comments
Webcomics

Some Things: Roots

“I’m growing something in my chest that’s spreading through my bones.”

Cameron May 4, 2019 15 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Aww, It’s Petra’s First Lesbian Bar on “Jane the Virgin”

Plus: Niko and Mel go on the cutest little detective chase on “Charmed.”

The TV Team May 3, 2019 7 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Which Gay Superpowers Do You Want?

Let’s talk about big gay superpowers we’d want like being invisible to straight people or growing out undercuts in an instant.

Valerie Anne May 3, 2019 87 Comments
Travel

Weekender: Miami and Miami Beach Pride

I spent five days in Miami and Miami Beach, and it was not nearly enough! Here are some things I checked out and would recommend.

Rachel May 3, 2019 12 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Celebrating Carol Haird

“Please would you like to bang? I think you’re glorious.”

Darcy May 3, 2019 22 Comments
Issues

The Gayest Shit I’ve Ever Done in the Great Outdoors

“When was the last time you saw a straight person in a bog? That’s what I thought.”

Seth Rubin May 3, 2019 31 Comments
Dating

You Need Help: What Does My Crush on Someone Older Than Me Mean?

“I have recently grown attracted to someone who is older than me. Not too much older, but enough to make me question where I’m coming from.”

Christina Tesoro May 2, 2019 11 Comments
First Person

How My Badass Butch Skyrim Character Saved My Life

In the mirror, I saw a scrawny, hollow-eyed girl dressed in ill-fitting boys’ clothes, a parody of a parody of masculinity. But in the screen, I saw myself made strong, confident, fearless, perfect.

Rae Nieves May 2, 2019 15 Comments
TV News & Trailers

Vida’s Season Two Trailer Is Here, Queerer Than Ever

Vida’s second season promises to be deliciously complicated, sultry, and heart-wrenching. Dammit, I already want more!

Carmen Phillips May 2, 2019 11 Comments
AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #7: Gender Neutral Parent Names, So Many Questions about Crushes, and More!

Highlights include: going down while wearing a nose ring, surviving the United States as a queer immigrant, living on the same college campus as your ex, and also how to perfectly time your break up. That’s just the beginning!

the team May 2, 2019 23 Comments
Playlists

10 Summer Tracks for Girls Who Want Girls

This summer I want to kiss girls. Girls sticky with lipgloss, girls purple with lipstain, girls sweet with cherry chapstick. I dream about kissing girls in my car (front or back seat). I dream about kissing them in the shade or in the sun. We are always a little bit sweaty and smelling like grass. We are always kissing to music.

Sara Youngblood Gregory May 2, 2019 3 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Riverdale” Episode 320 Recap: Prom Night Horrors

Plus, Cheryl and Toni slow dance!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 2, 2019 1 Comment
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Handmaid’s Tale Season Three Trailer Finds Serena and June At The Pool, S-M-O-K-I-N-G

Handmaid’s Tale Season Three promises revolution and darkness, Kristen Stewart talks about pressure to define her sexuality, Suranne Jones hired a lesbian sex consultant for “Gentleman Jack,” Clairo on not being straight, writers from Pose and Boomerang and Good Trouble discuss LGBTQ rep, and so much more!

Riese May 1, 2019 19 Comments
Issues

Unlikely Hikers: Creating Space For Everyone On The Trail, One Group Hike At A Time

“I can’t explain how unreal it felt to be able to let my guard down with a big group of strangers on a hike.”

Mat May 1, 2019 12 Comments
Issues

Letter From The Editor: The Outsiders Issue

These are all love stories.

Riese May 1, 2019 19 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Stephanie Beatriz and Cameron Esposito Rep Leather Jacket 4 Leather Jacket Love

Also: Samira Wiley’s time-traveling, Tessa Thompson’s slow dancing with herself, and Janelle Monáe is maybe on her way to the moon.

Heather Hogan May 1, 2019 9 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Cherríe Moraga on Delving Into Her Queer Chicana Memories in “Native Country of the Heart”

Moraga’s latest, “Native Country of the Heart,” is a deep meditation on memory — reflections of the past, recalling hard moments, losing ourselves, and remembering who we are as Mexican-Americans, in more ways than one. She spoke to Autostraddle about her new book and the journey her queer feminism has taken over the course of her career.

Yvonne May 1, 2019 8 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Horoscopes for May 2019: Claiming Joy and Power in Your Body

Taurus season is in full bloom — whatever your relationship is to embodiment and pleasure, expect it to change this month.

Corina Dross May 1, 2019 5 Comments
AF+

The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 56, April 2019

“SHIT WAS GAY HEATHER
SHIT HAS BEEN GAY”

Riese April 30, 2019 38 Comments
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