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Relationships

You Need Help: What Does a Healthy Relationship Look Like?

What is it you are unlearning? What are the narratives about yourself that you are unraveling from your heart like so much tangled yarn? And can you be gentle through the unraveling?

Christina Tesoro June 13, 2019 9 Comments
Issues

Queering the Wild

Hey there science nerds! This is like taking high school biology all over again! Except this time when we explore nature, it’s going to be truly, deeply queer.

Micha Rahder June 13, 2019 7 Comments
Movie Features

Why Do So Many People Have Goodbye Horses as Their Tinder Anthem?

“When I first matched with the “Goodbye Horses” fans and asked them about it one said, “that buffalo bill scene is classic” and the other said, “I LOVE the song.” Then they both ghosted.”

Drew Burnett Gregory June 13, 2019 29 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Pink Hair Don’t Care Megan Rapinoe Won’t Apologize for Being Awesome

Also: A lesbian couple on My Little Pony, Ellen Page says Juno grew up to be a lesbian, that Yorkshire lady of renown, Lena Waithe wants to help you with your wardrobe, there’s still hope for One Day at a Time, Pose Pose Pose Pose, and more!

Heather Hogan June 12, 2019 3 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Kate Moennig and Leisha Hailey Invite You To “Loud and Proud: Back In The Habit”

Kate Moennig and Leisha Hailey take pics at Pride, Evan Rachel Wood got a bisexual towel, Tessa Thompson wore alluring outfits in Marie Claire Magazine and other pressing news from celebrity instagram!

Riese June 12, 2019 8 Comments
Travel

Queer Girl City Guide: Los Angeles

It’s our epic guide to some of the best places to eat, learn, walk, shop, party and be queer in Los Angeles.

Queer Girl City Guides June 12, 2019 54 Comments
LGBT History

Precious and Adored: Reading Victorian Love Letters, Writing Queer History

When Rose Cleveland and Evangeline Simpson met in 1890, they fell for each other hard. Their once-hidden letters are collected in a new book.

Lizzie Ehrenhalt June 12, 2019 16 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Jonathan Van Ness is Non-Binary: “Queer Eye” Scene-Stealer Comes Out, Is Ready to Educate

It’s exciting to me that he’s still using he/him pronouns. It’s exciting to me that he’s speaking publicly in a way that’s complicated and messy with a fluidity in language to match his fluidity in identity. It’s exciting to me because cis straight people love Queer Eye.

Drew Burnett Gregory June 12, 2019 11 Comments
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“To L and Back” L Word Podcast Episode 110: “Luck, Next Time”

Mr. Piddles, I have something to tell you: Dana is gay and Cherie Jaffe wants a change and Kit will take the strawberry smoothie and Jenny is not having a nice time at this dinner party!

Riese June 11, 2019 5 Comments
Issues

Our Solution to Climate Crisis Is Each Other

When we gather together, we don’t need to arrive with hope, because we have the power to create it. We will dictate the future.

Allyson Woodard June 11, 2019 16 Comments
The L Word: Generation Q TV News & Trailers

“The L Word: Generation Q” Announces Two New Characters, Bette and Tina’s Grown-Up Baby

Over at Entertainment Weekly, showrunner Marja-Lewis Ryan unveiled an annotated page from a Gen Q script and some details about the new series.

Heather Hogan June 10, 2019 23 Comments
Issues

On the Trail of the Quaker Aunts

The Quaker Aunts were the stuff of family legend, fearsome women in sensible shoes. Did one of them really smuggle Jewish children across the Alps before World War II?

Elinor Rooks June 10, 2019 22 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: The Prom’s Lesbian Kiss Wins the Tony Awards and Other Gay Shenanigans

How the U.S. government continues to fail the USWNT, Stonewall 50, Google’s LGBTQ employees are furious at YouTube too, when abortion was illegal, and so much more!

Natalie June 10, 2019 5 Comments
Book Features

The Perfect Queer Poem: When You Need to Find Your Body

A gut feeling is intuition, sure, but it’s also something that announces HERE is the body, NOW is the body, RIGHT NOW.

Natalie June 10, 2019 7 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is Obsessed With Roxane Gay and Debbie Millman’s Love

Plus a queer country playlist, intergenerational Pride, Late Night is maybe a feminist dream, and more!

Ari June 9, 2019 4 Comments
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NSFW Sunday Is So Sunburned

Sweaty summer sex, a few ways of looking at asexuality, a bot that will help with your sexting game and more.

Ryan Yates June 9, 2019 2 Comments
Webcomics

Grease Bats: Cruising 4 Pride

“This Pride I’m finally getting over my CATHOLIC GUILT that has prevented me from engaging and enjoying hook-up culture!”

Archie June 8, 2019 10 Comments
Recipes

Femme Brûlée: Pink Lemonade Tart

Of course as a black queer woman making lemonade from the sour fruits in life is a highly curated skill of mine…

Reneice Charles June 8, 2019 9 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Celebrating Samira Wiley’s Pride Month

Plus top hat-shaped holes in our hearts, what if the brownies were gay tho?, and polar bear flirting facts.

Heather Hogan June 7, 2019 10 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Let’s Make a Queer Summer Reading List!

Get in here and recommend all the good (gay) books!

Casey June 7, 2019 80 Comments
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