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Mistress Tom deFun and Blair
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Coping

How (and when) to talk about mental illness in a new relationship, how to ask to initiate sex, Instagram is updating its nudity rules. pandemic dating stories, the rise of big naturals and more.

Ryan Yates November 1, 2020
Sal Marquez and Vivi Marie
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Mild And Wild

How to go to your first sex party, how to remember social skills when you’re still staying home, it’s time to retire the baseball sex analogy, why can’t bodies just orgasm on an indefinite loop? And more.

Ryan Yates October 25, 2020 3 Comments
Beating Hart, C’est La Vie, and Cinnamon Maxxine
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Shadowbanned

Shadowbanning and censorship disproportionately impact sex workers. A new report from Hacking/Hustling on the recommendations policy makers and platforms need to implement now.

Ryan Yates October 18, 2020
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Watching Porn With Partners

A new relationship compatibility test, challenges in teledildonics, I refuse to call pandemic sex “coronalingus,” and more.

Ryan Yates October 11, 2020 1 Comment
Maggie McMuffin and Tender Furiosa
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Taking A Meditation Moment

Sometimes meditation is a euphemism for masturbation and sometimes it’s not. Also, a look inside a sex toy factor, what you need to know about NSFW subscription sites, and more

Ryan Yates October 4, 2020
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Misses The Hunt

How to open your relationship; how to make vanilla sex more interesting; what’s happening to our relationships in the pandemic and more.

Ryan Yates September 27, 2020
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Talking About Asexuality

All about asexuality, comparing the best queer astrology apps, why sexual health and STI testing still matter in the pandemic, your parents’ divorce could be the reason you have a crappy love life, queer sexting can let you write your body into being and more.

Ryan Yates September 20, 2020 2 Comments
Mistress Tom deFun and Blair, with Blair as human furniture
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Differentiating Boundaries and Walls

The key difference between boundaries and walls, whether masturbation is good for you when you’re sick, what science has to say about porn this week, and more.

Ryan Yates September 13, 2020
Scout and Lew Pine lay on the paid together, one bites the other's neck.
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Is a Tall Glass of Water

Dating is hard when you’re too thirsty. Plus, pandemic non-monogamy, relationship imposter syndrome, and more.

Ryan Yates September 6, 2020
Golden Curlz, kneeling on a bed
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Anxious and Polyamorous

When you’re poly and anxious, when you learn to show yourself the love you show others, the new cuffing season and more.

Ryan Yates August 30, 2020 8 Comments
Kissy Burgundy and Cinnamon Maxxine
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Breathing

An orgasmic breath work class, the age gap debate, updates to the “rough sex” defense and more.

Ryan Yates August 23, 2020 12 Comments
Two women lie on bed together making out, and one woman playfully and sexily bites the other woman's shoulder blade.
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Self-Destructing Art

How to tell if you’re dating a narcissist, how to get better at talking about sex, a pandemic glory hole explainer, the self-destructing art show you don’t want to miss, and more.

Ryan Yates August 16, 2020 16 Comments
Beating Hart and C’est La Vie making out
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Having Masked Sex

How Shine Houston made queer porn great, how action and pleasure go together, how to be a better top, what cannabis can do for your masturbation and more.

Ryan Yates August 9, 2020 2 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Chafing

Preventing summer chafing, embracing body hair, demon and ghost sex, why your breakup was for the best and more.

Ryan Yates August 2, 2020 5 Comments
Izel the Alpha and Puppy Chulo
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Doing Threesome Math

Finding a kink- and sex-positive therapist, what it’s like to be a unicorn, what it’s like to act on queer desire for the first time and more.

Ryan Yates July 26, 2020 6 Comments
Beating Hart, C’est La Vie, and Cinnamon Maxxine
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is in an Intimacy Bubble

Intimacy bubbles are the new polycules, the conversations to have before considering an unmasked hangout, why you were right to break up with that person who was wrong for you and more.

Ryan Yates July 19, 2020 4 Comments
Adina and Saffron
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Is Bruised Like A Peach

What to do when you’re too sore from a spanking to sit, being solo poly in quarantine, whether or not coconut oil can cure yeast infections and more.

Ryan Yates July 12, 2020 2 Comments
Halo the GxdBody and La Muxer Diosa making out
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Can Wait To Make Out For As Long As It Takes

A Massachusetts city has officially recognized polyamorous relationships; playing Animal Crossing with a buttplug; why “clean” is not a good metaphor for talking about STI status; and more.

Ryan Yates July 5, 2020 2 Comments
Beating Hart, C’est La Vie, and Cinnamon Maxxine
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Fingerblasting Through Quarantine

Is handsex now the safest sex after masturbating alone? Plus, how to handle a too-needy friend, what it’s like to fall in love with another gamer, and more.

Ryan Yates June 28, 2020
Izel the Alpha and Puppy Chulo
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Thinking About Sex As Essential

Desire and risk in the pandemic, centering sex workers in abolition conversations, a very good review of a very bad sex toy and more.

Ryan Yates June 21, 2020 2 Comments
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