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Jennifer in Jennifer's Body with blood on her mouth leans in close to Needy like she's going to eat her
First Person Issues

All Girls Want To Eat Each Other

Cannibals, like lesbians, are feared for their selective appetites.

Mallory October 14, 2024 10 Comments
Alexia in Titane on a car
Issues Movie Features

Anatomy of a Queer Sex Scene: Titane Made Us Wanna F*ck Cars

My opening question was going to be: So, have you ever had sex with a car?

Drew Burnett Gregory and Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya
October 12, 2024 11 Comments
Book Features Issues

The Trans Terror of Franz Kafka

For many trans readers, it’s easy to find a kinship with Kafka.

Willow Heath October 11, 2024 2 Comments
a kid with a pumpkin mask watching a jack-o-lantern on a screen
Issues Movie Features

‘Halloween III’ Rules; Capitalism Sucks Ass

Halloween III stands as a prescient warning for what was coming as a result of the disastrous decisions of Ronald Reagan’s administration.

Stef Rubino October 9, 2024 4 Comments
Isabelle Adjani against the wall in Possession with Horror Is So Gay logo in the bottom corner.
Issues Movie Features

Possession, Heartbreak, Transition

During my most nervous-system-destroying breakup to date, I found myself feeling like an abandoned child, the victim of a broken contract.

Damien Kronfeld October 8, 2024 1 Comment
HORROR IS SO GAY: SISSY
Issues Movie Lists

Horrorscopes: What Queer Horror Film Should You Watch This Month, Based on Your Sign

Horoscopes can be a useful way of understanding ourselves and working toward personal growth; HORRORscopes can let us avoid that personal growth by reveling in our own mess and allowing our “evil” sides in. And doesn’t that sound more fun?!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 5, 2024 3 Comments
HORROR IS SO GAY 28 Days Later
Issues Movie Features

In ’28 Days Later,’ Found Families Who Fight Fascism Together Stay Together

The world wasn’t technically ending in 2003 — it just felt like it was.

Stef Rubino October 3, 2024 4 Comments
QUEER HORROR MOVIES AND SHOWS STREAMING THIS MONTH
Issues Movie Lists

54 Queer Horror Movies and Shows To Stream This Month

Gather round stream queens, it’s time to watch queer horror all month long.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Drew Burnett Gregory
October 2, 2024 11 Comments
HORROR IS SO GAY: a person peeling off a pumpkin mask
Issues Movie Features

The Threequel Is the Gay Cousin of Horror Movies

Threequels never play it safe. I used to, until I didn’t.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 1, 2024 7 Comments
people at a play party
First Person Issues

Play Parties Let Me Explore My Asexuality

Maybe I didn’t always know I was ace, but I can’t say there weren’t signs.

Abbie September 11, 2024 8 Comments
a hand resting on a fat body
First Person Issues

Toward a Definition of Fat Fetish

I look at my body in the mirror. Fat, yes. But desire is a crooked hook down my throat I cannot articulate.

Autumn Fourkiller September 2, 2024 9 Comments
December 1972 issue of UpFront Magazine out of Pensacola, Florida
Issues LGBT History

Invisible Histories Won’t Let You Leave the Queer South Behind

Collectively, the states that make up the South are home to more Black people, more people of color, and more LGBTQ people than any other region of this country.

Stef Rubino August 30, 2024 4 Comments
THE CIRCLE reality show
First Person Issues

I’ve Always Loved Deception

As I begin my career as a therapist, I have to hide parts of myself.

Em Win August 28, 2024 5 Comments
feet at a bathhouse and a passport
First Person Issues

I’m Going To Keep On Cruising at the Men’s Only Club

I’ve always been struck by the mostly silent language of cruising.

Vera Blossom August 22, 2024 8 Comments
an image of top surgery scars and a medical band
Health Issues

My Top Surgery Was Complicated. I Don’t Regret It

We rarely hear about how healing can be an iterative and potentially complicated process.

E. Goldblatt Hyatt August 19, 2024 3 Comments
a person's back
First Person Issues

When Passing Isn’t Impossible Anymore

What happens when you start to pass? And what happens when you decide that’s not the end-all-be-all anymore?

Max Gross August 15, 2024 4 Comments
a gay bathhouse
Issues LGBT History

I Long for the Queer Secret Spaces of the Past

Dream with me, if you will. It’s the mid-1960s, and you and your queer friends are looking for some place to go to meet others like you when you hear rumors about a members-only club called Gateways tucked away in a hidden corner of the city.

Stef Rubino August 14, 2024 4 Comments
A card with trees depicted on it, burning from a flame.
Issues

The Damage Fascism Has Done to Trans and Disability Research

Few know about the long-term effects that the Nazi Party had on present-day understandings of both autism and transgender identities.

Alex DiFrancesco February 7, 2022 8 Comments
A mural of Black trans femmes joyously dancing and in celebration.
Community Issues

Black, Trans, and Alive

There is joy here. I have dreamed of this 100 times, prayed for it twice as many.

Glori Tuitt November 20, 2021 9 Comments
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AF+ Issues

Lying’s the Most Fun a Girl Can Have

“I identified as a heterosexually-inclined bisexual when I started giving hand jobs for money, and I left more or less a lesbian. It wasn’t the only factor in that transformation, but boy was it a major one.”

Riese June 21, 2021 66 Comments
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