Jess’s Team Pick: Dating Advice From a Butch at Ask AJ Anything

Do you need advice or just want to see a cute butch tackling her viewer’s lesbian problems? AJ has over 8,000 subscribers to her YouTube channel where she more or less dispels hilarious and charming dating advice from her little apartment in Long Beach, California. Sometimes she picks the topic (butch wardrobe help, bad lesbian hair), sometimes she answers viewer questions and other times she’ll take you on a little adventure to The Ellen Show.

AJ has lately been recapping The Real L Word, video style and take one guess how she feels about it.

Check it out for yourself with this episode: The Lesbian Break-Up Kit and check out the rest of her videos at AskAJAnything.

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Jess is a pop culture junkie living in New York City. She enjoys endless debates about The L Word, Howard Stern, new techy gadgets, DVR, exploring the labyrinth of the Lesbian Internet, memoirs, working out, sushi, making lists, artsy things, anything Lady Gaga touches, traveling, puppies, and nyc in the fall. Find her on Twitter @jessxnyc or via email.

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