DIY cat houses, how to avoid losing things, pigs can learn to scream, ditching bad Tinder dates and more!
“Even if I didn’t think I was hurting her feelings, she’s telling me I was. So what is my end game with my current strategy – make her feel badly for bringing up an emotional issue that she’s uncomfortable with? Make her feel like dirt for being honest with her own feelings?”
Cleaning your shower curtain, a lightbulb terrarium, movie theater popcorn without leaving your house, and some cool nerd stuff courtesy of NASA!
You don’t have to hide under your pillows or hide from your partners this month, but expect a few potholes in the otherwise smooth pavement of your relational rapport.
I like to think I can control my anger, but I usually end up burning my own life down instead.
Fixing a burst pipe, protesting despite risk of arrest, free coloring book pages and more!
Like last time, as we proceed in the comments, remember the severity or levity of your hypotheticals might feed the power a person has over you. Tread carefully, and let’s have fun.
Tater tots! Determining your immigration status! Secret CIA tape for your mail! And more!
“Eclipses are times when our ordinary lives are interrupted, when we’re asked to reckon with hidden desires and motivations, secrets long buried, and unexpected breakthroughs and revelations.”
When waking up every morning feels like starting another steep climb, how do we keep our wits about us long enough to reach the top and breathe?
Online therapy, figuring out whether your plant is dead, tax prep, sending faxes and more!
When the walls of my life seemed to be crumbling in on me from every angle, I knew someone would pay. That someone was usually me.
The ideal way to stack nachos, proactive steps for a Trumpian world, getting compensation from airlines, some important ketchup info and more!
This month, we’re looking at your coming year in queer love: how you’ll be able to grow, where you’ll be able to heal, and where you can hold the faith and keep the dream alive. Here’s your roadmap to how to love yourself better this year, and show up for the ones you love — whether that’s your committed life partner or your an international network of queer communities.
I refuse to make a New Year’s resolution. I can’t buy into that idea anymore, because I know it only sets me up for failure.
Make a ton of quesadillas, drink mulled wine, write in a guided journal by the light of a Himalayan salt lamp and more!
How can one negative feeling send a whole day into disarray? Why do feelings like worthlessness seem to snowball? How do I stop this?
Winterizing your car, standing up to bigotry, craft beer pairings, IKEA furniture and more!
Feelings about feelings: How do they work and why are they so awful?
“What a strange way to end the year. How strange to talk of personal love, right now, as though we can separate it out from love for everyone who is suffering and endangered. But queer love can and must encompass that—what are we here for if not to create new ways of loving, new communities of care, and a world with less repression and hatred?”