“I don’t know, y’all, being a parent is so scary, and sweet and weird and hilarious and exhausting and ugly and lonely and suffocating and perfect.”

Why are there so many TV shows about high school kids who don’t act like high school kids at all?

Olive Garden said gay rights

We have 26 whole questions on all things gender! From parenting to transition to clothing to inclusion and exclusion in queer spaces, and more!

A+ members, let’s hang!

The Autostraddle team offers advice on a relationship crisis, dealing with the fact that your ex has moved on quickly, a friend who is less interested in rekindling the friendship than you are, commitment and marriage and more!

Plus self-harm scars and dating, crushing hard on your married coworker, learning to celebrate yourself and more!

Stingers up!

For the first themed A+ Advice Box in our new themed series, you asked questions about dating yourself after having a kid, dating your partner after lockdown, using dating apps when you are tired of screens in general, getting into casual dating, dating again after time periods ranging from 7 months to 4 years, whether love is a lie, and more!

For thirteen warm days in these cold months, let’s hang.

“I wanna know about the image for Laneia’s hate fuck list — these are some very choice collage images…”

“I just learned the word “Swiftgron”!!!! ?! Taylor Swift + Diana Agron as a maybe couple at some point ??!”

How do you stop comparing yourself to your girlfriend’s nesting partner, have big life conversations with your partner, deal with feeling your friends don’t love you as much as you love them, and more?

I played Charades with my family on Christmas Day and none of them had heard of Portrait of a Lady on Fire!

Remember Tila Tequila?

Does Kayla work for-hire to investigate food mysteries/memories? Because I have a caramel apple cookie mystery I’d love some help solving!

Cinema has been in decline post-Mean Girls.

Looking for children’s books with queer moms, binding as a cis woman, communications issues in relationships, and more!

Pandemic haircuts, changing your perception around friendships, do you want kids, do you need to know what you’re looking for when dating, feeling weird about not feeling New Relationship Energy, and more!

We answer questions from A+ members about disclosing PTSD while dating, coping with siblings who judge others for choosing to have children, healthy boundaries with partners, body acceptance and more!