How (and where) to buy used sex toys, good budget-friendly toys and the best things to go big or save up for.
You can’t focus your mind and make her text. You only have control over your fingers.
So you fell in love with a girl and it upended your life with family, kids and religion. What now?
“It’s like a magic confidence talisman, that blindfold is.”
If you’re nervous you won’t like vulva taste, this post is for you.
Is it a libido gap? Or is it a sign that a major relationship change is in order?
So, I hear you’re looking into a body modification situation.
“I’m seventeen and I’ve already gone through my queer angst – and it kills me to see this kid alone almost all the time, they always look miserable and it reminds me of me a couple of years ago.”
We are going down… on vaginas.
In which we discuss the pros and cons of double-ended dildos at length.
Fortunately, people DO come with a user manual, you just have to verbally speak it into existence.
“Is there a way to feel that passion and craziness again after 2.5 years together?”
As a trans* chick with not much going on “downstairs” I’m intrigued with using strapons instead of my actual bits, just not sure how best approach it. Can anyone recommend harnesses with a little extra room in the crotch that won’t break the bank?
“Am I allowed to tell my girlfriend that I would like to have sex more often? If so, how?”
“I’d like to see if porn does anything for me, would you have any (ethical, lesbian) recommendations for the first try of a young adult with an eye for the femmier?”
“Help! I just got a strap-on and it turns out I’m not so skilled at using it (yet). How do I learn?”
“I’ve been hanging out/ hooking up with this girl for about a month. I have her pretty figured out physically and can get her off fairly quick, but the same can’t be said about her. I don’t have a problem with it, but it’s starting to make her upset. Help.”
“How do I deal with an assault that wasn’t rape? How can I keep from feeling like my assault is being minimized?”
To leave or not to leave, that is the question.
Vanessa’s Team Pick: A career fair at the LGBT Center in NYC and the chance to see Autostraddle’s Carly speak on a panel? Hello Monday, you’ve never looked so good!