Welcome to part two of my two-hour conversation with my girlfriend, bestselling author Kristen Arnett, during which I asked her questions I genuinely did not know the answers to! In part one, we covered childhood and teen years, and she explained scrambled porn to me, which definitely ties into one of the topics we touch on in this second half of the interview: our age gap. In fact, we're talking all things our relationship, from its origins, to our first official date, to our specific top/bottom dynamics, to the writer4writer of it all. Yep, we got very personal!
Kayla: Let's fast forward to our relationship. We met online, and I feel most people know that about us. It's like the-
Kristen: I think it's part of the legend.
Kayla: The legend. You reached out to me on Valentine's day.
Kayla: And you were drunk and-
Kayla: I know that story well, and I feel like people know that story well, but I actually don't know like, what we...
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