I feel like the state of Virginia has earned itself a bad reputation. From our horrific and embarrassing Transvaginal Ultrasound Bill to the controversy caused back in 2010 by Attorney General Ken Cuccinelli’s awful, discrimination encouraging letter, Virginia comes off as a cultural hellhole where our daily life is ripped from the pages of poorly written Margaret Atwood fan-fiction. But the city of Richmond is the antithesis of everything terrible you’ve ever heard about Virginia. I’ve been here for over four years now, and I can tell you in complete honesty that RVA is, hands down, one of the gayest cities in the American South. It’s like a big Queer oasis surrounded by a desert of red state. The only real problem with Richmond’s LGBTQ scene is that nobody outside of the city knows we’re even here. This guide is just a taste of what the 804 has to offer.
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Word On The Street: RVA’S Chillest Neighborhoods
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APARTMENT IN FAN DISTRICT
The Fan District is located in the heart of the city and is the largest area in all of metropolitan Richmond. Virginia Commonwealth University (VCU) is situated in the center of the district so the Fan is one of the safer areas to live due to the university police presence. Housing in this area ranges from very expensive to very reasonable, depending on what you’re looking for in an apartment or townhouse.
Oregon Hill is an area mostly populated by VCU students, so if you’re young and you’re looking for a house party, it’s where you should be. Housing here is particularly affordable (if you like having roommates) and there are a lot of incredibly cute places for rent in the area. One downside is that Oregon is home to some of the worst sidewalks in the entire city which is really saying something because Richmond is famous for it’s shitty, uneven brick pathways that somehow never get fixed. (Do NOT attempt to wear heels in this city. Ever.)
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OREGON HILL
Carytown is a shopping district that hosts a wide selection of cool stores, clubs and restaurants. It’s my favorite place in the entire city to do my Christmas shopping because you can literally find anything and everything here. One of the coolest parts of the neighborhood has to be the Byrd Theater. It’s this insanely beautiful old school movie theater that screens second-run movies for two dollars a ticket. Every spring, the theater hosts Richmond’s annual French Film Festival.
Shockoe Slip is definitely the fanciest and most expensive area of Richmond, but it’s where you should go if you’re looking for a ritzy night on the town. Most of RVA’s Fortune 500 companies are based in this area, so naturally the stores and bars are a little out of the price range of your typical twenty-something. There are a couple of great places in Shockoe, namely Siné Irish Pub and The Canal Walk, but Queers be warned: a lot of the bars and clubs in this area are not exactly LGBTQ friendly.
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Rams Nation: Virginia Commonwealth University
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Richmond is totally and completely run by VCU. With a student body of 30,000 that keeps growing every year, it’s Virginia’s biggest state school by a landslide. If you pay any attention to the March Madness tournament, then you’ve already heard about VCU and our eternal God-King of college basketball, Shaka Smart. But Virginia Commonwealth University is also legendary in the community for providing a safe space for its LGBTQ students and faculty. VCU’s Department of Gender, Sexuality and Women’s Studies sponsors most of the university’s LGBTQ programs and outreach, including our biggest organization, Queer Action. The department is also active in international outreach programs, most recently in India.
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Let’s Get Shitfaced: Richmond’s Best Bars, Queer Or Otherwise
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Before we dive into Richmond’s bar scene, it’s important to mention that the official beer of the city is PBR. Seriously. There’s a running joke in the 804 that PBR actually stands for the “People’s Beer of Richmond.” No, I’m not kidding. We have shirts and everything.
Godfrey’s (308 East Grace Street) is probably the most famous gay bar in the area because of their legendary Sunday Drag Brunch. Wednesday’s College Hump Night is very popular with the VCU crowd because you get in free before 10PM with a student ID. The drinks can get expensive, and the drag performances that happen throughout the night will cut into your dancing time, but Godfrey’s is still worth checking out.
Babe’s of Carytown (3166 W. Cary Street) is a close second in fame and reputation when it comes to Richmond gay bars. It’s one of the top spots for Richmond lesbians mainly because it’s been around forever. Babe’s doesn’t draw much of the young college crowd because it’s 21+ to get in, but that just means you won’t have to deal with seeing freshmen puking up 4Loko every time you go to the bathroom.
Balliceaux (203 N. Lombardy Street) isn’t really considered as a gay bar most of the time, but every few weeks or so, the bar hosts an event called BEARD: A Queer Dance Party and it’s steadily becoming the hottest LGBTQ party scene in the entire city. If you’re coming to Richmond and you’re into dancing, you absolutely can’t miss out on BEARD.
Cellar Door (1600 Monument Avenut #B2) is by far my favorite Richmond bar that isn’t a gay bar. It’s located in the basement of an apartment complex, so the parties they host aren’t huge ragers like the ones you see at Balliceaux. If it’s getting late and you’re looking for cheap drinks and a calmer atmosphere to end your night, Cellar Door is your destination.
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Eat Your Heart Out: Restaurants And Cafes For Great Dates
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Sticky Rice (2232 W. Main Street) is a phenomenal Asian fusion restaurant near the Carytown area with a major cult following. It’s not the most authentic sushi joint in the city, but it sure as hell has the perfect atmosphere for a fun dinner date. (If you get their logo tattooed somewhere on your body, then you can have $1 PBRs for life. I actually know people who have done this.) If you’re here on a date, you should order one of their giant maki rolls (the Godzirra Roll is orgasmic) but be sure to split it with your lady friend because their portions are HUGE.
Ipanema (917 Grace Street) is a popular vegan/vegetarian restaurant that’s unique because like Cellar Door, it’s located in a dark basement. There’s a small but cute outdoor seating section that’s great for lunch but usually too crowded for dinner. The vibe at Ipanema is incredibly romantic, and their Mexican Chocolate Pie is literally the best thing I’ve ever eaten.
Harrison St. Café (402 N.  Harrison Street) is my favorite place to get a cup of coffee. It’s great first date territory because everything is really affordable and like Ipanema, the café caters to vegans and vegetarians. (One thing you should know about Richmond is that there are a ton of places that are accommodating to different diets. You can easily find vegan/gluten-free/locally grown/etc. versions of every type of food.) The upstairs area of the café is surprisingly cozy and perfect for days when you want to just chill with a cappuccino and read a good book.
Cook Out (4802 Broad Street) gets an honorable mention in the restaurants category because even though it’s technically a chain, it’s exclusive to the Virginia/Tennessee/Carolina region. The best thing about Cook Out is that it’s open until 4AM and you get a stupid amount of food for next to no money. It’s the kind of place where you can get a corn dog as a side dish. Is it trashy? Sure, but that’s why it’s good.
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Shopaholic: Where To Blow Your Money
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Rumors (732 W. Broad Street) is a consignment boutique specializing in the resale of branded clothing and other cool shit that you can put on your body. You can get some seriously great deals and you can also sell them your own unwanted apparel for money or store credit. (Protip: Take the store credit. There will ALWAYS be at least one thing you want to buy in the store)
Diversity Thrift (1407 Sherwood Avenue) is one of Richmond’s biggest and best thrift stores with a strong tie to the LGBTQ community. Located at the Gay Community Center of Richmond, Diversity uses the proceeds from its sales to support several non-profit Queer organizations in the city. It’s incredibly easy to find Diversity thanks to the bigass rainbow painted on the side of the building. It’s the best place to go if you’re looking for something specific and obscure, like one of those multicolor 90s windbreaker jackets.
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DIVERSITY THRIFT
Plan 9Â (3012 W. Cary Street) is the sickest store located in the heart of Carytown that specializes in new and used CDs, DVDs and records. Vinyl is huge in RVA, and Plan 9 has the best selection of records in the entire city. Besides selling and buying CDs and LPs, the store is one of the biggest sponsors of the Richmond Folk Festival and they frequently host in-store shows for local musicians.
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RICHMOND FOLK FESTIVAL
Fine Food Market (700 Idlewood Avenue) is Richmond’s best bodega, no contest. Located in Oregon Hill, the store hosts an enormous selection of import and domestic beers, wines, and of course, malt liquor. Their grocery section is much more extensive than your typical locally owned convenience store, but the guys who run it are some of the coolest dudes in the whole city.
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Paint Me Like One Of Your French Girls: Culture And Entertainment
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The Virginia Museum of Fine Arts (200 N. Boulevard) is the perfect place to spend a Sunday afternoon when you’re flat broke and in need of culture. With a diverse collection of galleries featuring pieces from prolific artists such as Andy Warhol, Georgia O’Keefe, Claude Monet and many, many more, the VMFA has everything you could ever want from an art gallery. If I could, I would live in their Art Deco/Art Noveau gallery and never, ever leave (except to get a cup of coffee and one of those divine little tiramisu cakes from the museum’s café.)
First Fridays is an art walk that takes place on Richmond’s Broad Street every first Friday of the month. Local galleries host exhibitions and cultural enrichment programs, such as music performances, burlesque shows and wine tasting events. The best-known and most loved hot spot for FF is Gallery 5, located just off Broad Street.
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FIRST FRIDAYS
Belle Isle is RVA’s number one go-to spot for cooling down in the swamp-ass inducing summer heat. Located in the middle of the James River, the island offers you the perfect place for swimming, kayaking, and straight up chilling. Even though Richmond has strict open container laws (Boo!) most people come with a cooler of PBR and sit out on the rocks by the river. Belle Isle is located in Oregon Hill, and is nearby another choice Richmond landmark, Hollywood Cemetery.
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BELLE ISLE
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We’re Here, We’re Queer: Activism And Outreach In RVA
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Fan Free Clinic (1010 N. Thompson Street) is our oldest free clinic that specializes in outreach for the LGBTQ community. Located in Richmond’s Fan District, the FFC offers many great services such as: women’s healthcare, immunizations, adult and pediatric medicine and sexual health education. Fan Free is also notable for being very Transgender-friendly; they offer specialized medical and counseling services for Trans people in the community and they have a wonderful reputation with the RVA Queer family.
Southerners On New Ground is an organization with a strong membership basis in Richmond that is dedicated to fighting legislation which negatively affects LGBTQ persons in the American South. SONG also works for the rights of immigrants and other Southerners who are otherwise disenfranchised or oppressed by their communities. The organization also does outreach in Alabama, Georgia, North Carolina and South Carolina.
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Girls Rock RVA is one of Richmond’s newest outreach organizations, but it’s also one of the most exciting! Girls Rock hosts an annual summer music camp for girls and gender non-conforming youth between the ages of eight and fourteen. Their mission is to “facilitate a space in Richmond that empowers girls to collaborate creatively in an environment of mutual respect and positive self-expression.” Â The campers are given creative freedom to form their own bands and write songs for a performance at the end of the camp.
ROSMY is a youth advocacy and support group for LGBTQ teens and young adults. They offer several counseling programs and outreach facilities, including a special toll-free support hotline that takes calls 24/7. One of their most notable outreach programs is their Alternative Prom, which is held every spring and caters to Queer youth who otherwise don’t feel comfortable or safe attending their own proms. ROSMY also provides educational programs for the family members of LGBTQ youth.
Richmond is a city with a lot to offer. Whether you’re into chugging PBR until the sun comes up, or if you’re looking for a calmer and enriching experience, there’s literally anything and everything you could ask for in the 804. Special thanks to Danny Caporaletti for providing the photography, and thanks to my Richmond Queer family for their input!
I’m impressed that you took the time to write about Richmond! As someone born and raised in Richmond, I can’t say that I think of it as highly as you do, but it’s definitely not as bad as outsiders might think. Way to rep the 804!
Oh my goodness, thank you so much for this! I’m moving to VA in August (like an hour form Richmond, but still) and I’ve been having minor conniptions about the possibility of not being able to find any queer folks.
It is not an exaggeration that RVA is the queertopia of Virginia. But it’s also got a weird 90s vibe. Everything is grungy and zines are huge here. Prepare yourself.
Heyy where are you moving? I’m also about an hr out from Richmond :)
I’m moving to Gloucester Point for grad school. It’s 30ish minutes east of William and Mary.
VIMS? I live just up the road from there. Great school. There’s also a decent gay scene an hour down the road in Virginia Beach. Another LGBTQ-friendly city with a handful of gay bars/clubs.
Someone should do Victoria, B.C. (Canada). I’m just a baby queer in Victoria, so I still don’t know much.
It’s great to see you guys covering Richmond. Virginia definitely gets a bad reputation, which it often deserves, but there’s a lot to be said for some of our cities. I’m at a university in central Virginia and the differences in the mood and atmosphere in our small town versus that of Richmond are astounding. Great article!
Hey are you in C’ville?
Nope, I’m in Farmville (Longwood)!
Holy crap, I’m from Farmville and took a couple classes at Longwood. :D Never thought I’d see another Autostraddler that lived here.
I went to Longwood too! Just graduated in May. Small world.
I was sad that my grad program was there, until I arrived.
Richmond charmed me.
Oh yes it did.
I’ve only just moved away.
This is making me miss it a little.
Lived in Richmond for three years back in the early 2000’s. Carytown is the best… I used to love going there. :) Seeing this list was a weird blast from the past sort of thing. I haven’t thought about these places in nearly ten years!
Thanks for this! I’m actually moving to Richmond in a few weeks, so this is quite timely.
Oh, I’m so glad you did this! I live in NYC, but I’m from Virginia Beach and visit RVA quite often. Sticky Rice is awesome by the way, great choice. I’m going to have to check out the drag brunch at Godfrey’s next time I get the chance. Thanks!
P.S. Ellwood Thompson’s Local Market is a great place to get Whole Foods-like stuff. They have a community room with all kinds of events and they have a coffee/tea/juice bar. I’ve only been in once, but it made a great impression.
Is University of Richmond gay friendly as well?
U of R is actually surprisingly gay-friendly, at least in terms of the administration. I say surprisingly because preppy, rich whitebreadness : U of R :: water : fish. They live in it, breathe in it, it’s everywhere, it saturates your life. But, one of my friends is a res life coordinator there, and I believe she told me that they’re in the process of building/designating an lgbt dorm!
UR students are on the whole moderately liberal, and there is an active and out group of queer students. There is lgbtq housing, as mac said, but only if you’re a sophomore or older. There’s also many queer-focused clubs and activities: social clubs, political clubs, counselling clubs, etc. You’ll find that the institution itself and its policies can be a little, ah, archaic as it struggles to catch up with the demands of the student body, but they are also very open to ideas on how to better itself for students of all walks…except transfolk, UR is not a fun place to be if you’re trans*.
I live right by Virginia and never knew how cool Richmond was. Seriously, you just made Richmond sound like pretty much the coolest place. Now I want someone to write a post like this about Maryland. I kind of live in a box.
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(If you get their logo tattooed somewhere on your body, then you can have $1 PBRs for life. I actually know people who have done this.) WHAT. I am not sure if this is the most insanely cool thing ever, or just the most insane thing.
And reading about Southerners On New Ground makes me really warm and fuzzy inside.
My colleague goes to VCU. He works for the LGBT causes there. He’s really cool dude, too, so.
Such a great article! I’m from NoVa, but so many of my friends from high school have gone to school in Richmond and fallen in love that I feel like I need to give them a visit at some point, and there are some awesome suggestions here.
This post is /so/ Richmond, I can’t even handle it. Makes me miss it so much!!
Richmond is a pretty awesome place. There are some adorable old apartments and a lot of fantastic places to eat. Charlottesville is also pretty friendly and it’s own strange little oasis in a very red state.
Woa, nice article. I really like the fact that you included Belle Isle. That’s my go to chill-zone. Me and some friends are actually gonna party hardy there tomorrow :D Fun stuff.
This is such a great post! I have the BEST memories of living on Franklin, Grove and Pine St. while college. Some of my favorite people live there still, and it retains all the charm and coolness it always did.
The rest of Virginia can suck it, however.
Richmond has really grown on me. It doesn’t hurt that it’s a relatively inexpensive place to be living, too. I must remember to get that PBR t-shirt.
I was born and raised in the 804 (now I reside in Chicago) and I gotta hand it to you Richmond is better than some may think but that doesn’t go without critique. Queer persons of color and folks of color in general still have a long way to go in that city/state.
I graduated from VCU in 2005. I know the guy who started Queer Action (so glad to see it’s still a thing). Rosmy was the first gay thing I ever did i.e. I went to a support group meeting there absolutely terrified at the time (because of the whole inner homophobia thing I was going through).
I met some of the best friends of my life at VCU. One of which, I moved to California with.
We went to Babe’s every Thursday night. Man, this article brought back good memories.
I had a great time gaying it up in Richmond when I was there. It’s a great place to visit. I’d recommend it.
I used to live in RVA and have recently discovered that I can’t handle my life without it anymore. It’s so awesome to see this article and all the amazing places that I love to frequent.
Hey, I’m associated with Queer Action and I just wanted to note that the website you linked to is WAAAAAY out of date. The best source for QA-related stuff will be our Facebook page here:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/176437555700917/477166468961356/
For anyone who’s interested, we have the annual VCU Drag Ball coming up in November, which has raised ~2000 dollars in the last two years for Fan Free Clinic.
Amen sister – Richmond is doin’ fine (along with c’ville and nova); encouraged by out gay candidates and elected officials around the Commonwealth and everyone who is getting involved in the 2012 campaign [Democrats and Libertarians].
I agree with everything here. Richmond is actually pretty visibly queer, and has a grungy 90’s punk feel. I will say I’ve had some bad experiences with homophobia in RVA, but overall, my experience has been really positive. I’m glad this was covered, especially since Richmond seems ignored sometimes. I’m also glad that not just gay bars were listed, because I feel like most queer folks I’ve met haven’t been at the gay bars.
I’m from Farmville, a real town about an hour from Richmond, and I always had to go to Richmond for any shopping that couldn’t be done at Walmart. It seemed like a great place in comparison to Farmville, but I hadn’t considered it in the context of the larger queer world. There’s a couple of places on this list that I haven’t been that I’m dying to check out.
Oh, and I’d recommend Chop Suey Books in Carytown as well. They have a great selection of indie publication material (with a focus on art) as well as a bunch of sex and queer positive stuff. As an added bonus, it’s also a favorite of Amy Sedaris.
Is anyone doing an International Brunch Day Richmond this weekend?
I’m driving down to Pride this weekend, anyone else going? Would love to meet up with some fellow Straddlers!
I’m probably going to VCU next year and this article made me feel about 200% better about moving to an entirely new city, so thank you.
Queer book lovers should also check out this guide for Richmond’s best bookstores – http://bookriot.com/2014/04/20/literary-tourism-richmond-virginia/. One of the used book stores has a resident cat.
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Even though this is old, THANK YOU so much for this article! I’ll be heading to Richmond in a month for an 8 week clinical rotation and I know nothing about the city (and no one there!) Looks like I’ll have plenty of queer friendly places to check out :)
It’s time for a follow up article on 804RVA. Lots going on there these days.
Just in case anyone still reads this:
-ROSMY is now called Side by Side
-Richmond Zine Fest, hosted every fall usually at the main branch of the Richmond Public Library, is a great way to find and support local queer artists
-the bookstore with a resident cat is Chop Suey Books in Carytown
-821 Cafe has really great french toast, also vegetarian options
-Belle Isle is pretty cool, but the James River Park System has a lot more to offer! Maymont is a park with several animal enclosures and gardens, and is a great spot for picnics
-Fine Food Market is honestly not the best bodega anymore, in my personal opinion. Prices have gone way up :(
-I just realized Queer Action is actually in this guide and I couldn’t be more proud. It has also been joined by a revived QTPOC student org at VCU, by the way
-if you’re looking for VCU specific info, the Office of Multicultural Student Affairs (OMSA) is a great way to get connected to queer orgs and events
-Other thrift-y places to shop include: Fan Tastic Thrift, literally just an average neighborhood thrift store but the origin of many great finds as well as half my kitchen utensils and appliances; and Ashby, a consignment store in Carytown similar to Rumors but occasionally cheaper and sometimes with a slightly less grunge bent.
-Cary Street Tech Exchange is a great place to get affordable electronics and video games
That’s all the updates I can think of at the moment. This guide really helped me out when I first moved here, so hopefully these updates might help anyone new to Richmond now or in the future!
I am a professional artist who relocated to Richmond a few days ago from Little Rock, AR. So glad I found this info. since I am not familiar with the area! Thank you! http://www.greatfineart.com
I’m actually considering a job at VCA for the 2018-2019 school year and I appreciate these updates! Moving to the south concerns me (I’m from the Ohio/Indiana/Kentucky area) because of the limited queer communities I’ve been a part of in the past or currently and I just want to make sure I’m not applying to places that have smaller LGBT communities. These things are hard to tell when you’re coming from far away.
So I’m currently finishing up grad school and right in the beginning of my job search, and one of the first things I do when considering a position is the city it’s in. So I open up a new tab, type in “queer girl city guide” and then the city I’m considering. It’s literally the first or second thing I do when researching a new place. So thank you for writing these! And thanks, Autostraddle, for having this column!