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Book Features Issues

The Trans Terror of Franz Kafka

For many trans readers, it’s easy to find a kinship with Kafka.

Willow Heath October 11, 2024 2 Comments
6 across / 5 letters / "Caught Up in the Rapture" singer Baker
AF+ Puzzles

AF+ Mini Crossword Makes a Good Promposal

But actually — have you tried asking someone to prom with a crossword puzzle? It’s a good move!

Emet Ozar October 11, 2024
Lena Katina and Yulia Volkova from TATU kiss each other during a concert, 3 October 2002, in Lodz, Poland. The Russian duo TATU are coming to the UK for a series of concerts in London and Manchester in May 2003. (Photo by Wojtek Laski/Getty Images)
Music

Remember When Russian Pop Duo t.A.T.u Pretended To Be Lesbians?

“From the minute “All the Things She Said” hit the airwaves, there had been rumblings that the girls in t.A.T.u. weren’t actually lesbians. I mean, it makes sense; they were too stereotypical. The schoolgirl outfits, Julia’s spiky short hair, Lena’s long curls. It just feels like what two older straight men think lesbians look like.”

Sa'iyda Shabazz October 10, 2024 19 Comments
"Show me an image of a queer person" Copilot: "Sorry it looks like I need to chat about something else."
Geekery

How AI Erases Queer Content

“In an uncanny way that only AI can achieve, this expressed rationale mirrors a common feeling held by cis folks when interacting with trans people: the paralyzing dread of saying the wrong thing.”

Ev Nichols October 10, 2024 7 Comments
The Legend of Vox Machina season 3 batch 2: Kima and Allura kiss
TV Reviews

‘The Legend of Vox Machina’ Gives Us Some Sweet Sapphic Backstory

This week, we got to peek into the lives of Allura and Kima when they were just wee adventurers learning how to work together.

Valerie Anne October 10, 2024 1 Comment
All the animals hug Roz in The Wild Robot
Movie Reviews

‘The Wild Robot’ Is an Unexpected Depiction of Queer Found Family

This may be a sizzling hot take, but Chris Sanders’ The Wild Robot is a queer film.

Em Win October 10, 2024 5 Comments
Fred Armisen in Portlandia next to Kristen Arnett dressed as Lance from Portlandia for Halloween
Halloween

Kristen Arnett Rates Her Past Halloween Costumes

Like many homosexuals, I enjoy dressing up. Is there a theme? Terrific! Costumes, wigs? The freakier the better.

Kristen Arnett October 10, 2024 8 Comments
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Issues Movie Features

‘Halloween III’ Rules; Capitalism Sucks Ass

Halloween III stands as a prescient warning for what was coming as a result of the disastrous decisions of Ronald Reagan’s administration.

Stef Rubino October 9, 2024 4 Comments
Janelle Monae DJing
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Janelle Monáe Shares Favorite Horror Films

And a trailer drops for the new Nosferatu starring Emma Corrin. Horror Gays are so up.

Christina Tucker October 9, 2024
Maisy Stella in My Old Ass
Movie Features

Maisy Stella Absolutely Would Have Picked Aubrey Plaza To Play Her Older Self

“I literally didn’t know being gay was a thing people weren’t cool with! I didn’t know that until I moved to Tennessee and was rudely awakened.”

Gabrielle Grace Hogan October 9, 2024
5 across / 5 letters / "Billie Eilish Doesn't Have To ___ the Color of Charli XCX's Underwear"
AF+ Puzzles

AF+ Mini Crossword Has Classified Underwear Intel

We would never betray our sources, even if they’ve won 9 Grammy Awards.

Darby Ratliff October 9, 2024
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Health

Testosterone Gel vs. Injections: Which Is More Effective?

I’m not a doctor or a scientist. What I am is a trans man whose own transition experiences have made me curious about how it all works.

Max Gross October 8, 2024 3 Comments
Movie Reviews

Monsters & Mommis: “Cat People” and “The Seventh Victim” Come Out of the Closet

The real horror is straight people.

Drew Burnett Gregory October 8, 2024 19 Comments
"As with all lesbian drama, it’s complicated."
Dating

‘The Girl I’m Vibing With Thinks I’m Still Into My Ex’

Queer relationships often don’t take the shape or trajectory of cis-heterosexual ones.

Summer Tao October 8, 2024 16 Comments
Isabelle Adjani against the wall in Possession with Horror Is So Gay logo in the bottom corner.
Issues Movie Features

Possession, Heartbreak, Transition

During my most nervous-system-destroying breakup to date, I found myself feeling like an abandoned child, the victim of a broken contract.

Damien Kronfeld October 8, 2024 1 Comment
TODAY -- Pictured: Kate McKinnon on Monday, September 30, 2024 -- (Photo by: Nathan Congleton/NBC)
Pop Culture Fix

Kate McKinnon Moved to the Woods, Grows Her Own Food, Got Into Carpentry and Wrote You a Book

Kate McKinnon is living the lesbian dream and doing a press tour about her new middle-grade book, Agatha All Along ASMR, a peek into Heartstopper’s potential future, Ariana Debose’s new horror flick, and more.

Valerie Anne October 7, 2024 3 Comments
Rachael Lippincott and Alyson Derrick
Book Features

Rachael Lippincott and Alyson Derrick Are Co-Authoring Sapphic YA Romances While Balancing Motherhood

With a toddler and another baby on the way, Rachael Lippincott and Alyson Derrick have to carve out space to keep making art together.

Sa'iyda Shabazz October 7, 2024 1 Comment
collage of bee modeling
First Person

I Was Naive To Think I Could Shape It More Than It Could Shape Me

“Young and naïve, I looked towards magazines, media and the Internet to tell me about the world. I imagined what it might look like when I grew up and became a part of it, not realizing how literal or destructive that aspiration would become.”

Bee Beardsworth October 7, 2024 5 Comments
Darcy and Tara smile and almost kiss in Heartstopper season three
TV Reviews

‘Heartstopper’ Season Three Is About Queer People Surviving and Thriving

Of course, it’s not all Big Feelings and Hard Conversations. There’s also plenty of sweetness and cuteness that will have you smiling until your cheeks hurt.

Valerie Anne October 7, 2024 9 Comments
7 across / 4 letters / 2004 comedy in which teenagers train to be crimefighters, wear plaid skirts, and fall in love
Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Just as Stumped as U

Pro-tip: when a word is shortened or abbreviated in a crossword clue, there’s probably an abbreviation in the answer too!

Kate Hawkins October 7, 2024
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