The Basics




South Jersey

About Me

About Me

I like Latin, kittens, rowing, hiking, reading, and shirley temples or any combination thereof.

Check All That Apply

Lesbian, Queer, Butch, Other


I think trees know everything

Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet

Relationship Status



loyalty, a good sense of my optimal bedtime


gourmet sodas

Are You Out To Your....

Member(s) of Immediate Family, Members(s) of Extended Family, Close Friends, It's Complicated

What I Like

Favorite Books

The Wednesday Wars, The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, To Kill a Mockingbird, The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian, Jailed for Freedom, Iron Jawed Angels

Favorite Queer Books

Stone Butch Blues, Gender Outlaw, this list is a work in progress…

Favorite Movies

Iron Jawed Angels, both National Treasures, Fried Green Tomatoes, Forrest Gump, To Kill a Mockingbird, That Thing You Do!, O Brother Where Art Thou?

Favorite Documentaries

Mythbusters probably doesn’t count, does it…

Favorite TV Shows

The news, The Rachel Maddow Show, Modern Family, Law & Order: SVU, America: The Story of Us, and I think I was the only person ever to watch How the States Got Their Shapes.

Favorite Music

I really like didgeridoo music, especially Ondrej Smeykal. Otherwise: Flogging Molly, MEN, Reverend Peyton’s Big Damn Band, Woody Guthrie, Leadbelly, Black Rebel Motorcycle Club

Favorite Sandwich

BLT… minus the T and plus some pickles

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

the line between productive procrastination and procrastination

Favorite Quotes

“Nature held me close and seemed to find no fault with me.” – Leslie Feinberg, Stone Butch Blues

Favorite Writers

Gary D. Schmidt, Adrienne Rich, Vergil, Gail Collins, Bill Bryson, there are more that I can’t think of… Fareed Zakaria!