The Basics




United States

About Me

Check All That Apply

Queer, Genderqueer, Femme





Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Queer Friends to Make Out With, Business Contacts

Relationship Status

In a Relationship, Domestically Partnered, Non-Monogamous Relationship


witty, loud, charismatic, dependable


drunkard, aggressively promiscuous, always antagonizing straight dudes

Are You Out To Your....

Close Friends, All Friends

What I Like

Favorite Books

Free Culture
Yes Means Yes: Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity
Infinite Jest
Jubilee City by Joe Andoe
Kafka on the Shore
The Remains of the Day

Favorite Queer Books

Persistence: All Ways Butch & Femme edited by Ivan E. Coyote
Brazen Femme: Queering Femininity
Macho Sluts

Favorite Movies

Last Days
Little Miss Sunshine
Lars and the Real Girl
Lost in Translation
Mystery Team
Forgetting Sarah Marshall

Favorite TV Shows

Six Feet Under
Arrested Development
Batman: The Animated Series

Favorite Music

Things that go WOMP WOMP WOMP & all things grimey
House if I’m in the right mood
(Wax Tailor obsession is go!)
Hip Hop
& some rock music too, I GUESS.

Favorite Sandwich

shredded chicken banh mi

Favorite Quotes

“We are bad men living among bad men, and there is only one thing that can calm us: we must agree to go easy on one another.” -Seneca

“Resistance is everywhere, it always has been and always will be. Just because someone is not resisting in the same way you are (being a vegan, an ‘out’ lesbian, a political organizer) does not mean they are not resisting. Being told you are a worthless piece of shit and not believing it is a form of resistance.” -Kathleen Hanna

“It ain’t all waitin’ on you. That’s vanity.” -Ellis, No Country for Old Men

Favorite Writers

Murakami, Salinger, Ishiguro, DFW, and Solnit, I think.