The Basics




San Diego

About Me

About Me

I love music. I am a new vegetarian. Starting my own LGBT youth advocacy org. I play the cello, guitar, and I sing as well. I am an insane kitty cat lover. I build robots and aspire to become a vet. I’m always writing some poem or reading. I love dictionaries.

Check All That Apply

Lesbian, Genderqueer


Sartre's principal of universalization



Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Queer Friends to Make Out With, A Girlfriend

Relationship Status

It's Complicated, Damaged


honesty, compassion, patience, sincerity, Jean Paul Sartre.


pessimism, overcomplication, nerves.

Are You Out To Your....

Members(s) of Extended Family, Close Friends, School/Work, It's Complicated

What I Like

Favorite Books

The Road, Annie on My Mind, Harry Potter, Born Confused, The Count of Monte Cristo, Brave New World, Pretty Little Liars, Empress of the World, The Oxford English Dictionary, Reading The OED.

Favorite Queer Books

Annie on My Mind, Boy Meets Boy, Geography Club, When the Drama Club is Not Enough, Sing You Home, Pretty Little Liars, Empress of the World.

Favorite Movies

V For Vendetta, Girl With The Pearl Earing, Gray Matters, Saving Face, The Gymnast, Harry Potter.

Favorite Documentaries

Searching for Sandeep, A Jihad For Love, Late In Life Lesbians.

Favorite TV Shows

Chopped, Auction Hunters, History Channel, Pretty Little Liars.

Favorite Music

Tegan And Sara, The Indigo Girls, The Strokes, Brandi Carlile, Marilyn Manson, Dimitri Shostakovich, Antonin Dvorak, Pyotor Illych Tchaikovsky, Russian classical music from around the 40’s, Never Shout Never, Fleet Foxes, Jhameel, The Stranglers, Bring Me the Horizon, Chiodos, Senses Fail.

Favorite Sandwich

Vegan black bean patty burger on a whole wheat bun with melted mozzarella.

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

EVERYTHING (especially if it involves cats)

Favorite Quotes

“A woman needs a man as a fish needs a bicycle”
“I’m not confused, I’m just well mixed”
“Dulcissime, totam tibi subdo me”

Favorite Thing on


Favorite Writers

John Green, Nancy Garden, JK Rowling, Edgar Allan Poe, Cormac McCarthy, Tenuja Desai Hidier, Aldous Huxley, Jodi Picoult, Sara Shepard, Sara Ryan, Ammon Shea.