The Basics




Salt Lake City

About Me

About Me

hi peeps i like good coffee gluten free noms sunbeams alpine meadows fancy booze and playful furry mammals

you can find me on okc as gaypenguin

Check All That Apply

Queer, Genderqueer, Pansexual, "Label-Free"


i'm a realist but i think the earth/space/you/everything is beautiful


Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Queer Friends to Make Out With, A Girlfriend

Relationship Status

Single, Open Relationship, Non-Monogamous Relationship


i have excellent discerning tastes


sloth, envy

Are You Out To Your....

Member(s) of Immediate Family, Close Friends, School/Work, It's Complicated

What I Like

Favorite Books

anything by Clarissa Pinkola Estes, Terry Tempest Williams, or Eileen Myles

Favorite Queer Books


Favorite Movies

any visually stunning/lush animated films

Favorite TV Shows

Orphan Black, Doctor Who, Orange is the New Black, Game of Thrones, Lost Girl, Twenties

Favorite Music

just look me up on last [dot] fm: my handle is surigoma and i love world contemporary classical complex indie folk bluegrass rock jazz

Favorite Sandwich

avo and salt on toastwich, alternatively: pancetta and havarti with bb spinach on brown rice tortilla

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

jiz lee, my bike

Favorite Thing on

Crystal’s Music Recs and all the food and drink columns: i really enjoy my creature comforts

Favorite Writers

terry tempest williams, e.o. wilson, gary snyder, clarissa pinkola estes, eileen myles, allan watts, walt whitman