The Basics




SF Bay Area

About Me

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Lesbian, Queer

Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Queer Friends to Make Out With, A Girlfriend

Relationship Status






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Member(s) of Immediate Family, Close Friends

What I Like

Favorite Books

Palace Walk, Atlas Shrugged, The Grapes of Wrath, Under the Banner of Heaven, Are You My Mother?, The Hours, Teachers Have It Easy, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius.

Favorite Queer Books

Unbearable Lightness, Patience and Sarah, Stone Butch Blues.

Favorite Movies

Harold and Maude, Cool Hand Luke, Angela’s Ashes, Papillon, Shawshank Redemption.

Favorite TV Shows

The Wire, Big Love, The L Word (seasons 1&2 only), The Office, Law & Order: SVU, Portlandia.

Favorite Music

Radiohead, Atoms for Peace, Milton Nascimento, Flora Purim, Classic Rock, 90’s Alternative Rock, about a million other nameless songs I’ve heard by artists I don’t know.

Favorite Sandwich

ham, pepper jack cheese and avocado on a toasted sourdough English muffin.

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

This website

Favorite Thing on

The “Things I Read That I Love” series.

Favorite Writers

Naguib Mahfouz, Ayn Rand, John Steinbeck, Jon Krakauer, Alison Bechdel, Michael Cunningham, Dave Eggers.