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About Me

About Me

Recovering Nurse. Studying for a new discipline beyond healthcare

VEGAN for the animals.

Gardener. Cook. Talk to my cat.


Sings. Plays baritone uke in a band.

Cis female, white, lesbian.

Normally thinking about gardening, food or music. Or something on TLE.

Check All That Apply

Lesbian, Queer


Michael teachings



Looking For

Queer Friends on the Internet

Relationship Status

In a Relationship, Single


I have perfect pitch.


mm hmm food, mainly. And sleep. I go from being aimless and loving to focused and homicidal without enough sleep.

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What I Like

Favorite Books

secret garden by frances hodgeson burnett, confessions of a failed southern lady by Florence king , an angel at my table by janet frame, two little boys by Duncan sarkies,
Blue Highways by William least heat moon, Heidi by Johanna spyri, The price of salt by Patricia highsmith, saltwater creek by rhian gallagher, book of longing by leonard cohen, shift by rhian gallagher, the heart is a lonely hunter by carson McCullers , Animal Dreams by Barbara Kingsolver, Poisonwood Bible by Barbara kingsolver, Beloved by toni morrison, The Madness Vase by andrea gibson, The more I owe you by Michael sledge, Pete and Pickles by Berkeley Breathed

Favorite Queer Books

a boys own story by Edmund white , confessions of a failed southern lady by Florence king , stone butch blues, The price of salt by patricia highsmith ,
Saltwater creek by rhian Gallagher , Shift by rhian Gallagher , Truth Promise Dare, The Heart is a lonely hunter by carson mccullers, The Colour Purple by alice walker , The Madness Vase by andrea gibson, The more I owe you by Michael sledge, Oranges are not the only fruit by Jeanette Winterson

Favorite Movies

The Princess Bride, Ferris Bueller’s day off, Fried Green Tomatoes, Labyrinth, heavenly creatures, fargo, oh brother where are thou?, Winter’s bone, dead flowers, I am love, Orlando, Far away so close!, Wings of Desire, Paris Texas, Desert Hearts, Gas food lodging, Leaving Normal, Thelma and Louise, Roadside Prophets, High Fidelity, the life aquatic with steve zissou, Kenny, Red Dog, The Castle, Picnic at Hanging Rock, The Hours,
Most Clint Eastwood movies (acting and directed by), aimee and jaguar, Schindler’s List, Maurice, Paris was a Woman, Stand by me, Beetlejuice, Gia, Lone Star, Boy, The Colour Purple, Brokeback Mountain, Kill Bill 1 and 2, Witness, The Bridges of Madison County, What we do in the shadows

Favorite Documentaries

Richard Attenborough, Marcus Lush, Ruby wax, spinal tap, Clive James, Michael Palin, a mighty wind, best in show, waiting for guffman

Favorite TV Shows

OITNB, Sense8, The end of the fucking world, The L Word, Portlandia,  Queen of the South.

Favorite Music

leonard cohen, tash sultana, nina simone, etta james, kurt vile, kaki king,  Neil Young, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds (the Bad Seeds with Blixa Bargeld and Mick Harvey), neil finn, Sleater Kinney, Frazey Ford, Ry Cooder,  The Be Good Tanyas, Townes Van Zandt, Grace Jones, Sam and Dave, John Lee Hooker, Robert Plant.

Favorite Sandwich

vegan mayo tomato cucumber vegan cheese vegan pattie capsicum sundried tomato fresh tomato lettuce parsley gherkin brown bread

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

everyone on AS.

Favorite Quotes

You must be on crack – alice L Word
I can take this amplifier up to 11 – Nigel Tufnel, Spinal Tap
I’m the one in the indigenous pantsuit – Toni, to Heather Graham, WomenAndWomenFirst, Portlandia.
Tig Notaro is hot.

Favorite Thing on

all of them, one of everything, thanks. Autostraddle is what I have been looking for, it is what I believe The L Word tried to recreate, and partially succeeded, but the difference is Autostraddle: Is real, Is ongoing evolving and expansive, Is an archive of cool writing of opinion, fact and exaggeration, and Involves the queer female community ON EVERY LEVEL. Autostraddle is my lifesaver.

Favorite Writers

Christopher Guest, Wes Anderson, Douglas Adams, Seth McFarlane, Gary Larson, Matt Groening
and on a more serious facet: Leonard Cohen, Adrienne Rich, Rhian Gallagher, Sylvia Plath, Janet Frame, Joyce Carol Oates, Annie Proulx, Steve Braunias, Barbara Kingsolver, Andrea Gibson, Tig Notaro.