A+ Roundtable: If I Could Take It All Back

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Regrets, we all have them! Some nudge us when we're lying in bed in the middle of the night. Some try to smother us all the hours we're awake. This week, in another Bad Behavior Issue A+ roundtable, we asked our team: What is something you did to someone you love that you wish you could take back?

Heather Hogan, Senior Editor
Right after I came out I got into a few romantic relationships in which I really, really broke the hearts of the women I dated. I never went into it planning to be a monster, and I think that actually always made it worse. I am really nice. Not as a game or some kind of fake Sunday School bullshit. I am legitimately a very caring, very kind person. And I did care about these women! V...

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