Sunday Funday Lives Across from the Westboro Baptist Church and Still Feels Gay As F*ck

It’s Sunday, y’all! I’m about to have debatably the best week of my life.

Welcome Back, Legislation!

ENDA returns soon:

A long-standing piece of pro-LGBT legislation is under review and may be redrafted prior to its expected introduction in the U.S. House next month.

In an interview with the Washington Blade on Wednesday, Rep. Jared Polis (D-Colo.), the senior openly gay member of the U.S. House, announced that he plans to introduce in April the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, a measure that would bar workplace discrimination against LGBT people.

“I’ll be the lead author of ENDA, which we are at least planning to reintroduce in April,” Polis said.

And non-discrimination becomes the way of the land in Canada!!

Sarah Palin Speaks on Marriage

Just kidding.

Celebrating ~*~Marriage~*~

+ New Hampshire got gay marriage three years ago. It still matters.


+ What can legalized gay marriage pay for? (A ton of shit.)

Gay-Friendly Countries

How many countries are more gay-friendly than the United States? Spoiler Alert: thirteen.

Starbucks and Sony: Fuck You, Homophobes

Starbucks doesn’t need your dirty money.

The conversation itself stemmed from the National Organization for Marriage organization’s boycott on Starbucks after the company endorsed Washington state’s bill to legalize gay marriage. At the meeting, Starbucks shareholder Tom Strobhar  who is the founder of the anti-gay marriage, anti-abortion organization Corporate Morality Action Centerhad said, “In the first full quarter after this boycott was announced, our sales and our earnings  shall we say politely were a bit disappointing.”

Schultz, however, maintained that the company’s decision to endorse gay marriage and show support for equal rights was not vested in profits, but rather the principle of acceptance and diversity.

“If you feel, respectfully, that you can get a higher return than the 38% you got last year, it’s a free country. You can sell your shares of Starbucks and buy shares in another company. Thank you very much,” he told Strobhar in front of an applauding crowd.

A Sony Pictures Co-Chair wants to do better.

Brokeback Mountain, Milk, Boys Don’t Cry, Philadelphia, The Hours, Gods and Monsters, The Talented Mr. Ripley, A Single Man, My Own Private Idaho, Cloud Atlas – in all these movies, the main character is murdered or martyred or commits suicide or just dies unhappily. And there are far more pernicious and dangerous images that confront gay kids and their parents: the “lesbian murderer”, the “psychotic transvestite”, the queen who is humiliated and sometimes tossed off a ship or a ledge. It’s a big joke. It still happens.

How many times have you heard a character imply to another that the worst thing about going to prison isn’t being locked up for the rest of your life, it’s the homosexuality? And old stereotypes still exist. The most benign stereotypes would have a gay kid believe that they will end up being the asexual, witty best friend of the pretty girl, or a drag queen, or a swishy hairdresser. The list goes on…

…Not every gay character needs to be defined by his or her sexuality. Can’t being gay just be one stitch in the fabric of someone’s life? Can’t we depict men and women who just so happen to be gay – perhaps a lawyer or soldier or business executive or scientist or engineer…

Westboro’s Neighbors Suck Less

Wave hello to us, Phelps clan! We in here, motherfuckers.


The project — which the nonprofit is calling the “Equality House” — is the first in a new campaign Planting Peace plans to wage against the group. Westboro is known for its intimidating tactics of protesting (or threatening to protest) what they refer to as America’s pro-gay, anti-God agenda, in close proximity to pride parades, soldier funerals and other events like the Sandy Hook memorial services.

“I read a story about Josef Miles, a 10-year-old kid who counter-protested the Westboro Baptist Church by holding the sign that says ‘God Hates No One,'” Jackson told The Huffington Post.

“I didn’t know anything about the church or where they were located, but that story kept popping up. And one night I wondered, Where is this church? I got on Google Earth, and I was ‘walking down the road,’ and I did a 360 view. And I saw a ‘For Sale’ sign sitting in the front yard of a house. Right away it hit me, Oh my gosh, I could buy a house in front of the WBC! And immediately I thought: And I’m going to paint that thing the color of the pride flag.

Cats Like You


Hot cats in tech. I’m serious.

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  1. I’m glad that Canada passed C-279. Interesting that every NDP and Liberal member voted yes but the majority of Conservatives voted no. Sometimes I don’t understand how the conservative party has been elected for so long.

    Speaking of which, I can’t remember if this was posted here but it made me shake my head at Canada when I read it

    • Because the left is split between three federal parties, while the right all vote towards the PCs.

      • Yeah, that’s true. Especially since the NDP were a lot more popular last election…but I still don’t know if they are popular enough to win.

      • I know everyone makes it out to be a dirty word and a horrible thing, but coalitions are a standard part of parliamentary systems (and have even existed in Canada, at least in BC provincial government)… if people would get over that, and realise that a Liberal-NDP coalition wouldn’t be a horrible “anti-democratic” thing, the Tories would be finished.

          • Well, I’m not a fan of hers for various other reasons (most recently, abstaining on C-279), but Joyce Murray has mentioned that as a possibility. Unfortunately I don’t think she’ll beat Trudeau…

  2. So 18 Tories have actually have a shred of decency in them, and a bunch decided not voting either way is better for their chances at re-election.

  3. I’ve always been impressed with the Canadian approach to equal rights for the LGBT Community (most of my experience consisted of traveling / working some in British Columbia). Is like they’re a snapshot of US policy for our segment of society some 20 years into the future.

    • Well, some things do vary from province to province, especially in trans*-related matters; for that, I feel especially lucky to live in BC.

      • Yes, I am sure that some provinces are relatively behind the forward thinking mentality of others. I really appreciated the people and natural beauty of the province in which you reside – definitely lucky. :)

  4. Oh wow, I’m pleased to that the Conservative MP from my home riding in Winnipeg was one of the few to vote Yes. Thank you, Shelly Glover.

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