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Emet Ozar September 13, 2024
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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 12, 2024 13 Comments
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First Person Issues

Play Parties Let Me Explore My Asexuality

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No Filter: Enjoy a Little Kristen Stewart by the Sea

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Christina Tucker September 11, 2024 1 Comment
China Suárez caresses Julieta Cardinali in Linda.
Movie Reviews

TIFF 2024: ‘Linda’ Uses Taboo Eroticism in Its Class Critique

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Drew Burnett Gregory September 11, 2024
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Movie Reviews

TIFF 2024: ‘Sweet Angel Baby’ Is an Old School Drama about Small Town Homophobia

I’m glad we have lesbian cinema that goes beyond this narrative of homophobia and shame. But as long as homophobia and shame are present in our world, there will be a place for movies like Sweet Angel Baby.

Drew Burnett Gregory September 11, 2024
10 across / 4 letters / K ___ (affectionate nickname for the star of "Love Lies Bleeding")
AF+ Puzzles

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Kate Hawkins September 11, 2024
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This started as an exercise in self-love and turned into an exercise in personal connection.

Summer Tao September 10, 2024 4 Comments
"I’ve started hanging out with him less because he’s just annoying at times."
Friendship

‘My Gay Guy Friend Is Rude and Blames It on Gay vs. Lesbian Culture’

“I’ve started hanging out with him less because he’s just annoying at times.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 10, 2024 2 Comments
A collage of various SNL women players over the decades.
TV Feature

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Let’s hop in my time machine and discuss what makes the women of SNL so hot — without once discussing their looks.

Motti September 10, 2024 8 Comments
Breton Lalama sits in between two other transmascs who are out of focus in Really Happy Someday
Movie Reviews

TIFF 2024: ‘Really Happy Someday’ Is a Personal Film About the Exciting Challenges of Transition

There’s a pressure on trans people and trans storytellers to frame transition as a wholly positive experience. Any negativity is supposed to be external.

Drew Burnett Gregory September 10, 2024 1 Comment
LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - JUNE 14: Actress Sasheer Zamata attends the Los Angeles Premiere of "Thelma" at The Egyptian Theatre Hollywood on June 14, 2024 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Amanda Edwards/Getty Images)
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Sasheer Zamata Realizes She’s As Gay as the Characters She’s Played

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Valerie Anne September 9, 2024 1 Comment
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Movie Lists

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6 down / 4 letters / Musical that is a 1990s retelling of "La Bohème"
Puzzles

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Webcomics

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AF+ Puzzles

AF+ Crossword Is Making Bad Decisions

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Kate Hawkins September 7, 2024
TIFF 2024: Went Up the Hill
Movie Reviews

TIFF 2024: ‘Went Up the Hill’ Is a Queer Ghost Story With Serious Mommy Issues

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TV Feature

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AF+

Why Can’t I Share a King Bed With My Ex?

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