Results for: lip service

  • mirror image split screen of a femme of color sitting on their knees in a sexy floral robe, hair down, leaning to the right. there's a red treatment over the photo for a little extra erotic style.

    14 Knuckles: Femme Top Revolution

    August 27, 2020

    There’s a difference between domination as a way to take control or claim power over another person — the way certain lovers have done with me — versus domination as a way to provide comfort and care, and to grow one’s power without harming anyone else.

  • a double-image graphic that's cut in half with a red filter over it, so everything is bathed in a red light. on the left side, in negative, the top half of a brown, scorpio femme (the author!) poses in a leopard print slip. she's wearing hoop earrings, has a slightly parted mouth, round glasses frames and has loosely curled hair down to their shoulders. the other side of the image is in positive and shows a mirror image with more detail on the author's face.

    14 Knuckles: Always A Fistee, Never A Fister

    September 30, 2020

    My acceptance of my own pain allows me to have the kind of sex that is rooted in the specificity of my body. I don’t love the idea that I’ll never fist, but I do love the idea that every act of sex I engage with is collaborative. Queerness reminds me that there is no standard way to fuck or live.

  • 14 Knuckles: How Many Knuckles in a Fist

    May 27, 2020

    When I teach Rachel how to tie me up and fist me, when I ask her to tell me what to do, when I teach her exactly how I want to submit, I give her permission to go on a journey with me and dive into an expanding world of pleasure.