In today’s A+ advice box: is a miscommunication over polyamory really the issue here or is your relationship simply broken and toxic? Plus; advice about feeling insecure when texting a partner and getting into being handy!

Plus updates on All American, Survivor, Fantasy Island, The Power, and A Million Little Things.

Mystery, intrigue, potential ghosts, lots of gossip, queer people, and Amy Acker. Who could ask for anything more?

What I was feeling was genuine familiarity. What I was feeling all this time was seen.

Bella Ramsey stars in yet another heartbreaking lesbian love story, a snapshot of what it may have been like to be queer and in love in a time of witch trials.

I am a big advocate of parent-teacher conferences, and I always make it a priority to go.

Jinkx Monsoon’s Chicago run breaks records, maybe Willow isn’t really canceled, Lily Tomlin’s had it with Ron DeSantis, and more.

Advice for a person who really wants to get over being grossed out by periods, plus advice about friendship from three different askers.

It might seem ridiculous to you, reader, to hear a man compare queer kink to biological fatherhood, but I’m trepidatiously taking the stand in defense of duality.

And I don’t know how else to say this but ugh… for Lesbian Visibility Week, they invited Jennifer Beals to the White House??

This reminds me of the gorgeous difference in our Letterboxd reviews for this film. Mine was like “romance novels for boys are good” and yours was like “the struggling economic realities of being an artist are impossible to navigate.” And look, I think we’re both right!

I think this is always who I’ve been, and the other words were the ones I was trying on to see if they fit.

Your feelings are deeply understandable, even though your partner isn’t doing anything wrong. If you haven’t already, it’s time to seek trauma therapy.

But sometimes it shows its work on only the most basic level.

Fat Black girls are worthy of the care, affection, warmth and humor that come with being the heroine of our own love stories.

“I was around the same age as young Ellie when ‘Contact’ came out. The way she so clearly carries her childhood self with her made adulthood legible; it made time seem like less of an unknowable straight line and something more like a circle. Watching it as an adult I have that same feeling.”

Sapphic wives in a new Christmas movie? Yes! Now make them the main characters!

Scream VI is as queer as you were hoping it would be! Jump scares and gay smooching, let’s go!

A relationship in which Halloween plays a very important role? That’s gay.

“I feel like I give main character energy, so there’s no way that I was going to be anything else.”