The Basics





About Me

About Me

I’m in this weird place stuck between self-realization and some enigmatic sucking hole. I’m having fun so far!

Check All That Apply

Gay, Queer, Femme

Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet

Relationship Status

In a Relationship


Kindness, genuineness, treating others how I want to be treated


Booze and sticky situations

What I Like

Favorite Movies

The Color Purple, Milk, Crooklyn, Welcome to the Dollhouse, Beetlejuice, Children of a Lesser God, Easy Rider, Edward Scissorhands, Dark Crystal, Taxi Driver, Ma Vie En Rose, Jurassic Park, Jackie Brown, Legend, Velvet Goldmine, Labyrinth, Valley of the Wind, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Trainspotting, Girls Town. I have more favs but this is all I can come up with as of now!

Favorite Documentaries

Paris is Burning, The Black Power Mixtape, Waiting for Superman, For the Bible Tells Me So, The Business of Being Born, Bill Cunningham New York, Baraka, Earth.

Favorite Music

I love music. I try to catch a show at least once a week! My favorite genres are classic rock, punk, art punk, experimental, some metal, grunge, shoegaze, ambient, old school R&B, early indie & alternative and East Coast and golden-era hip-hop. I have way too many artists I could list here.

Favorite Sandwich

Grilled Cheese+Pesto

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

A naked back.

Favorite Quotes

“The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.”
-Maya Angelou

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Favorite Writers

bell hooks, Toni Morrison, Sylvia Plath, Augusten Burroughs, Maya Angelou.