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Hinckley, MN

About Me

About Me

I’m a trans*feminine androgyne going through many layers of transition: Through gender, out of deep depression, back into society, between states and into activism.

Check All That Apply

Queer, Trans*, Trans Woman, Other





Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet

Relationship Status

Open Relationship


omni equalist, outspoken, generous, thrifty, clothing/image conscious


omni equalist, outspoken, generous, thrifty, clothing/image conscious

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What I Like

Favorite Books

American Gods, Good Omens, Snow Crash

Favorite Music

Against Me!, Social Distortion, Bad Religion, Sisters of Mercy, Fields of the Nephilim, Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds, Tom Waits, Mike Patton, Rachael Yamagata

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

a traffic cone

Favorite Quotes

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde

“People changed lots of other personal things all the time. They dyed their hair and dieted themselves to near death. They took steroids to build muscles and got breast implants and nose jobs so they’d resemble their favorite movie stars. They changed names and majors and jobs and husbands and wives. They changed religions and political parties. They moved across the country or the world — even changed nationalities. Why was gender the one sacred thing we weren’t supposed to change? Who made that rule?”
― Ellen Wittlinger, Parrotfish

Favorite Thing on

The wit and humor with which the stories are presented.

Favorite Writers

Harlan Ellison, Neil Gaiman, Terry Pratchett, Piers Anthony, Robert A. Heinlein, Neal Stephenson