The Basics




New Orleans

About Me

About Me

radical queer anthropologist athlete

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Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Queer Friends to Make Out With

Relationship Status


Are You Out To Your....

All Friends, School/Work, It's Complicated

What I Like

Favorite Books

A People’s History of the United States, Frida: A Biography of Frida Kahlo, Catch-22, Girl With A Pearl Earring, The Devil in the White City, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest, Portrait in Sepia (Retrato En Sepia), Snow Crash, The Blind Assassin, the curious incident of the dog in the night-time, White Oleander, The Stepford Wives, The Stories of Eva Luna (Cuentos de Eva Luna), To Kill A Mockingbird, Their Eyes Were Watching God, The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet’s Nest (and the rest of the Millenium Trilogy), The Given Day, Ethnographic Sorcery, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

Favorite Queer Books

Empress of the World; Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe, Annie on My Mind

Favorite Movies

The Sound of Music, Frida, The Hours, Iron-Jawed Angels, Victor/Victoria, Anna and the King

Favorite TV Shows

Christy, Cheers, the seasons of Law & Order: SVU when Olivia was hot and Alex was there, Caprica (still broken-hearted), and reading the recaps of many shows featuring queer female characters, any episode of Dr. Who featuring Alex Kingston

Favorite Music

If you give it to me, I’ll listen to it (exceptions: country, unless I’m nostalgic for Central Florida, and most pop, unless I can dance to it). Artists that I like one or more entire albums from: Ani DiFranco, Tegan & Sara, Dar Williams, Alix Olson, Girlyman, Fiona Apple, Fall Out Boy, Coheed & Cambria, Cold, Tori Amos, Something Corporate, The Wallflowers, Liliana Felipe, Destiny’s Child, Elliott Smith, Rachel Yamagata, Panic! At the Disco
Musicals: Seussical, The Boyfriend, Chicago, Rent, Jesus Christ Superstar, Mamma Mia, Forever Plaid
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Favorite Quotes

“Soy la misma muchacha salvaje que hace años trajiste a tu lado.” – Raíz Salvaje, Juana de Ibarbourou

“I saw myself sitting in the crotch of this fig tree, starving to death, just because I couldn’t make up my mind which of the figs I would choose. I wanted each and every one of them, but choosing one meant losing all the rest, and as I sat there, unable to decide, the figs began to wrinkle and go black, and one by one, they plopped to the ground at my feet.” – The Bell Jar, Sylvia Plath

“He floated along thinking he would like to love the world as it was, and he felt a great deal of accomplishment for the occasions when he did, since the other was so easy. Hate took no effort other than to look about.” – Cold Mountain, Charles Frazier

Favorite Writers

Isabel Allende, Margaret Atwood