Tena D

The Basics


Tena D



About Me

About Me

Quirky alt-andro femme that loves all things women! Scorpio, Wildland Firefighter, Exotic dancer, Sex Kitten.

Check All That Apply

Lesbian, Sexually Fluid, Femme


Agnostic, I believe in the power of myself and whatever guides me, well..I wont ask questions.





Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Queer Friends to Make Out With, Business Contacts

Relationship Status

Single, Sleeping Around

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What I Like

Favorite Books

Cunt, Madness: A Bipolar Life, Wasted, I Like You: Hospitality under the Influence, Naked, Me Talk Pretty One Day, Sex at Dawn, Into Thin Air, Art of the Teese, Autopsyerotica, Thus Spoke Zarathustra, My One Night Stand with Cancer, Pulling Taffy, Strip City, A Clockwork Orange.

Favorite Queer Books

Lesbian Bondage Erotica, Hers2, My One Night Stand With Cancer, Pulling Taffy, Cunt, Valencia, Rent Girl.

Favorite Movies

Underworld Series, Mary and Max, Whip It, Hard Candy, The Devils Rejects/House of 1000 Corpses, Irreversible, Jennifers Body, Dangerous Minds, Gia, Dark City, Horrible Bosses, The Hangover 1-2, Prey for Rock and Roll, Striptease, Showgirls, G.I. Jane, An American Nightmare, Jack Ketchums: The Girl Next Door, The Notorious Bettie Page, Saw 2, Spun, Ghost World, The Squid and the Whale, Requiem, Secretary, Preaching to the Perverted, My Normal, for a Dream, Shortbus, Loving Annabelle, Jawbreaker, Trainspotting, Party Monster, Thirteen, The Haunted World of El Superbeasto, Observe and Report, The Cell…plus more.

Favorite Documentaries

The Bridge, Dark City, Enter Through The Gift Shop, Missrepresentation, Heart Breaks Open…to name a few. Cant think of any more at the moment. Ugh!

Favorite TV Shows

True Life, Breaking Bad, Intervention, Family Guy, Mission Hill, The Oblongs, American Dad, True Blood, The L Word, Spartacus, Strangers with Candy, Two and a half Men, Unwrapped, Taxicab Confessions, Cathouse Diaries, Skins(us&uk) Absolutely Fabulous, Exes and Ohs, The Real L Word, Nip/Tuck, Law and Order:SVU.

Favorite Music

Telepopmusik, Royksopp, Phantogram, Goldfrapp, Rob Zombie, Otep, Ghostland Observatory, LMFAO, Lady Gaga, A Perfect Circle, The Engine Room, Benni Benassi, Marilyn Manson, Velvet Revolver, Massive Attack, La Roux, Motorcycle, Bjork, Jack off Jill, Gina Gershon, Combichrist, No Doubt, Rammstein, The Distillers, The Horropops, Tracy Chapman, Billy Holiday, Pink Martini, System of a Down, Nine Inch Nails, Spice Girls… plus more.

Genres: Electronica, Pop, Industrial, Rock, Rockabilly, Psychobilly, Punk, 40’s-50’s, Indie, Jazz, Ambient, Alternative…etc.

Favorite Sandwich

Ciabatta bread with turkey, lettuce, sprouts, spicy mustard, tomato, avocado, bacon, pepperjack cheese! Yum!

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

Queer Destinations, Case studies, Fun facts, Best Of-Lists

Favorite Quotes

“You know when you kiss [someone] for the first time and your whole body feels like its on vibrate? Its that good.”

“Sometimes you have to give up on people, not because you dont care. But because they dont.”

“Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one”

Favorite Thing on Autostraddle.com

The information and the lovely queers!

Favorite Writers

Anais Nin, Inga Muscio, Amy/David Sedaris to name a few