The Basics




washington, dc

About Me

About Me

texan homo who passed through northampton, ma to get to washington d.c., living a life of politics, missing tex-mex, live music and the south.

Check All That Apply

Lesbian, Femme, Other


orthodox-come-conservative jew, cynic?, feminist

Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Business Contacts

Relationship Status

Single, It's Complicated, Forever Alone, Pining, Damaged, Rebounding


I'm good at Texas.


I'm bad at everything else.

Are You Out To Your....

Members(s) of Extended Family, Close Friends, All Friends, It's Complicated, Other

What I Like

Favorite Books

gone with the wind, the shipping news, anything featuring angry girls with dragon tattoos.

Favorite Queer Books

fried green tomatoes

Favorite Movies

igby goes down

Favorite Documentaries

12th & delaware

Favorite TV Shows

mad men, game of thrones, friday night lights, the west wing

Favorite Music

pearl jam, a lot.

Favorite Sandwich

pumpernickel bagel, avocado, cheddar, gruyère, tomato, lettuce, egg, dijon, pear.

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

jodie foster

Favorite Quotes

“Because women’s work is never done and is underpaid or unpaid or boring or repetitious and we’re the first to get fired and what we look like is more important than what we do and if we get raped it’s our fault and if we get beaten we must have provoked it and if we raise our voices we’re nagging bitches and if we enjoy sex we’re nymphos and if we don’t we’re frigid and if we love women it’s because we can’t get a “real” man and if we ask our doctor too many questions we’re neurotic and/or pushy and if we expect childcare we’re selfish and if we stand up for our rights we’re aggressive and “unfeminine” and if we don’t we’re typical weak females and if we want to get married we’re out to trap a man and if we don’t we’re unnatural and because we still can’t get an adequate safe contraceptive but men can walk on the moon and if we can’t cope or don’t want a pregnancy we’re made to feel guilty about abortion and…for lots of other reasons we are part of the women’s liberation movement.”
– Author Unknown.

Favorite Thing on Autostraddle.com

sometimes I see boobs.

Favorite Writers

margaret atwood, jo ro, e. annie proulx, cormac mccarthy