The Basics




Berkeley, CA

About Me

Check All That Apply

Bisexual, Queer, Other



Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Queer Friends to Make Out With, Business Contacts

Relationship Status

Open Relationship, Non-Monogamous Relationship

What I Like

Favorite Books

We Did Porn by Zak Smith, The Graveyard Book by Neil Gaiman, Eva Luna by Isabelle Allende, The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil by John Berendt, Fun Home by Alison Bechdel, Bel Canto by Ann Patchett, Second Nature by Michael Pollan, The Sparrow by Mary Doria Russel, the Sandman by Neil Gaiman et al, The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver, Prodigal Summer by Barbara Kingsolver, Small Wonder by Barbara Kingsolver, Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier, The Turn of the Screw by Henry James, Inherit the Wind by erome Lawrence and Robert Edwin Lee, Fray by Joss Whedon & Karl Moline… etc.

Favorite Queer Books

Me Talk Pretty One Day & every other David Sedaris book, Bastard Out of Carolina, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, Riot Grrrl zines, queer zines in general…

Favorite Movies

Volver, Whip It, But I’m A Cheerleader, The Royal Tenenbaums, Amelie, Blue Crush, Taste of Cherry

Favorite Documentaries

Fast Cheap & Out of Control

Favorite TV Shows

Samurai Jack, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Glee, Ghost in the Shell SAC, Pushing Daisies, Veronica Mars, Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, Star Trek: Next Generation

Favorite Music

Wilco, Beck, Tori Amos, Paul Simon, Eliott Smith, Andrew Bird, The Shins, Gipsy Kings, Rasputina, the Books, Broken Social Scene, Stars, Feist, The Indigo Girls, Calexico, Iron & Wine, The Faint, Elvis Costello, The Dresden Dolls, Pinback, The New Poronographers, The Avett Brothers

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle


Favorite Thing on

the comments! And then the articles.

Favorite Writers

Neil Gaiman, Barbara Kingsolver, JK Rowling, JD Robb, David Sedaris, Guy Gavriel Kay, Aldo Leopold, Mary Oliver, Roald Dahl, Phillip Pullman, Terry Pratchett, Isabelle Allende, Thich Nhat Hanh, Stieg Larsson, Tamora Pierce, Alison Bechdel, Dorothy Gilman, Joss Whedon