The Basics




St. Paul, MN

About Me

Check All That Apply

Lesbian, Gay, Femme

Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet

Relationship Status

In a Relationship


opinionated, very virtuous


gin, brandy, wine, card games (basically, I'm an old woman)

Are You Out To Your....

Member(s) of Immediate Family, Members(s) of Extended Family, All Friends, School/Work

What I Like

Favorite Books

Oryx & Crake, The Year of the Flood, The Handmaid’s Tale

Favorite Documentaries

The Business of Being Born, Tying the Knot, 8: The Mormon Proposition, Prodigal Sons, Hell House

Favorite TV Shows

Modern Family, True Blood, Six Feet Under, 30 Rock, The Wire, Downton Abbey, Veronica Mars, Medium, Ace of Cakes, Anyone but Me

Favorite Music

Ani Difranco, Chris Pureka, Dar Williams, Fleet Foxes, Horse Feathers, Akron/Family, Joanna Newsom, Anais Mitchell, Fiona Apple, The Weepies, Deb Talan, Junip, The Books, La Roux, Andreya Triana, Buke and Gass, Tune-Yards

Favorite Sandwich

Grilled Cheese with lots of Different Cheeses!

Favorite Quotes

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we’re liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
~Marianne Williams

Favorite Thing on

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday, Politics+Activism, Books, Film

Favorite Writers

Margaret Atwood & Annie Dillard