The Basics





About Me

About Me

Give me good tunes, a solid cup o’joe, the ocean, time to pen my thoughts/ink my life, as well as love…and I am set for life.

Check All That Apply

Queer, Genderqueer, Pansexual


Unitarian Universalist





Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet

Relationship Status

Single, Damaged

Are You Out To Your....

Member(s) of Immediate Family, Close Friends, Other

What I Like

Favorite Books

Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, Harry Potter, The Power of One, Life of Pi, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, White Oleander, Millennium series, Watchmen, The Chronicles of Chrestomanci, Until We Meet Again, The Book Thief, Lord of the Flies, The Kite Runner, The Namesake, Cold Mountain, Hitchhiker’s Guide.

Favorite Queer Books

Jumpstart the World, Fingersmith, Tipping the Velvet, The Other Side of Paradise, Empress of the World, The Rules for Hearts, Keeping You a Secret, Middlesex, Likewise, Potential, Awkward & Definition, Fun Home.

Favorite Movies

Garden State, Hook, Mrs. Doubtfire, Dead Poet’s Society, Amelie, Mean Girls, Antitrust, Juno, Foxfire, Forrest Gump, Star Wars, Bend it Like Beckham, 10 Things I Hate About You, Fried Green Tomatoes, Donnie Darko, A Walk to Remember, Miyazaki (Princess Mononoke, Spirited Away, Totoro, Nausicaa), Fight Club, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Moulin Rouge, Jurassic Park, Into the Wild, Ocean’s Eleven, (500) Days of Summer.

Favorite Documentaries

Exit Through the Gift Shop, Grizzly Man, Spellbound, Food, Inc., Planet Earth.

Favorite TV Shows

30 Rock, Parks & Rec, The Big Bang Theory, Scrubs, Frasier, That 70’s Show, Battlestar Galactica, Community, Friends, The Walking Dead.

Favorite Music

Bloc Party, Ellie Goulding, Interpol, Radiohead, Bon Iver, Royksopp, Damien Rice, Tegan and Sara, Incubus, Modest Mouse, Placebo, Laura Veirs, City and Colour, Ani D, Kaskade, The Decemberists, Mew, Pinback, Kaki King, Daft Punk, JMSN, A Perfect Circle, Morgan Page, Coldplay, jj, The Smiths, Kendrick Lamar, Emancipator, Tool, El Ten Eleven, The Weeknd, M83, Crystal Castles, Stars, Elliott Smith.

Favorite Sandwich

Peanut butter, apple, swiss, fried egg, lettuce — try it — it's BOMB.

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

Favorite Quotes

“Not all those who wander are lost.” — J.R.R. Tolkien

“I like nonsense, it wakes up the brain cells. Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living, it’s a way of looking at life through the wrong end of a telescope. Which is what I do, and that enables you to laugh at life’s realities. ” — Dr. Seuss

“When we are with Nature we are awake, and we discover many interesting things and reach many a mark we are not aiming at.” — John Muir

“Don’t let society tame you or contain you.” — Eunice Kennedy

“Take chances! Make mistakes! Get messy!” — Valerie Felicity Frizzle

Favorite Thing on Autostraddle.com

Everything, everyone

Favorite Writers

Flannery O’Connor, Kurt Vonnegut, Haruki Murakami, Shel Silverstein, David Sedaris, Theodor Geisel, Jack London, Diana Wynne Jones, Douglas Adams, Brian Jacques, Christopher Moore, Ariel Schrag, Margaret Atwood.